Pets and the Afterlife
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We all desire confirmation that we will
see our pets again in the afterlife.
This page attempts to assure people that such possibility exists. Many near
death testimonies confirm such. In Jan Price's book "The other side of
death" (which you can read on kindle at Amazon.com)
she is met by her doggie when she arrived at heaven in her near death
experience. And, in heaven, the two were able to communicate with each other.
Her dog showed her many wonders of heaven. In the book and movie "Heaven is
real" Colton Burpo met his dog in heaven during his near death experience.
To some people their pets are more loved and cherished than their family
members. And the heartbreak rendered
when they leave is just as devastating. Not often do we get first hand testimony
of seeing our pets in heaven, but
here is one such case offered me by a lady on my listserve. I thought i would
share it with you before getting to the book.
Hi Ber -
I know your heartbreak over losing Cubby II. I lost my special Freddie, a
Sheltie, on July 19, 2002. I didn't eat or
sleep for three days, and friends stayed up all night with me, and visited me
during the day, so I could function.
I finally understood the term "heartbroken" as my heart literally and physically
felt pained. I have a story for you:
My Father and Step Mother married in the 90's, after both their spouses had
passed on. They were sweethearts in
High School, then WWII and life got in the way of their relationship, and they
married others. Each of them had children.
When they reconnected in the 90's, and married, my Step Mother had a daughter
who relocated to the same community
where my Father lived, and where my Step Mother then lived with him. The
daughter married, and the newly weds bought
a dog. Life was wonderful. Buddy was their constant companion, living in the
log cabin they built. A few years later, they
had a daughter, and she and Buddy were best friends, Buddy being very protective
of the little girl.
Then, Buddy became ill with the effects of old age, and Buddy passed away. They
explained to the little girl what
happened, and that Buddy went to Heaven, etc. The little girl was maybe 2-1/2
or 3 at the time - quite young.
At about the same time as Buddy passed away, the little girl's Mom (my Step
Mom's daughter) went back to work,
and my Father and Step Mother babysat for the little girl every day, while her
parents went to work. They were in
7th heaven, having her there every day.
One day the little girl had what seemed to be a cold, and her parents took her
that evening to the ER, where she
was given some medication. The medication was properly administered, but the
next day, she still seemed sickly
when she was with my Father and Step Mom. That evening, when at home with her
parents, around 7:30 pm, they
felt she wasn't showing improvement, and seemed to be getting worse, so they
went back to the ER with her.
As the little girl's Father was carrying her into the ER for the second evening
in a row, the little girl convulsed, her
eyes rolled back in her head, and she said: DADDY, I SEE BUDDY! and she drew her
last breath.
So do pets go to Heaven? I think so. And I fully expect to see Freddie, and
all of the other wonderful pets who
have walked this walk with me. Heaven wouldn't be Heaven without them!
Will you be reunited with your pet in heaven? This book answers many of those
questions.
Your
Pet, Your Health,
How
Pets Improve our Health in this Life
Table
of contents.
Part
1: Pooch Power
Part
2: The Pet-Health Connection
Part
3: Will My Pet Go to Heaven?
Part
4: Preparing for the Afterlife
All things bright and beautiful,
All creatures great and small,
All things wise and wonderful,
The Lord God made them all.
—Cecil
F. Alexander (1823–1895)
What dogs? These are my children, little
people
with fur who make my heart open a little
wider.
—Oprah
Winfrey (b. 1954)
I care not for a man’s religion whose
dog and cat are not the better for it.
—Abraham
Lincoln (1809–1865)
Part 1: Pooch Power
Chapter 1
Furry Friends at Ground Zero
There is no psychiatrist in the world
like a puppy licking your face.
—Ben
Williams (1877–1964)
The
week of September 11, 2001, has been labeled “. . . the week that changed
America” (Newsweek, Sept. 24, p.
70). (1) During the days that followed that fateful Tuesday morning, millions of
Americans watched—over and over again—the
images on CBS, NBC, and CNN of hijacked planes that became guided missiles
ramming into buildings, of doomed people jumping out of flaming windows, and of
noble fireman who risked their lives or lost them trying to save others. Yet
something else went almost unnoticed. It wasn’t reported by Peter Jennings on
ABC World News Tonight, or by any
other news anchor. Nevertheless, it was real—and extremely important—to
those whose hearts were touched. It was the story of the incredible comfort that
paws, whiskers, and animal tongues brought to human beings at Ground Zero.
As
we begin our book highlighting the benefits of pets to people in this life –
and then explore the possibility of meeting them in the afterlife – we want to
start by revealing the moving account of how friendly animals brought comfort to
shell-shocked humans in the immediate aftermath of one of the most stressful
events in U.S. history.
I love a dog. He does nothing
As
a therapist, I have used dogs in my work for over twenty years. I firmly believe
that animals have a profoundly positive impact on our physical and emotional
health and well being. I watch as my dogs turn that belief into reality each and
every day.
Following
the tragic events of September 11, 2001, I received a call from TDI to volunteer
at the Family Assistance Center on Pier 94 in NYC. Despite my many years of
using my dogs to help soothe and calm others, this would be my biggest crisis
intervention experience ever. It was an honor to be able to help in this most
magical and rewarding way.
One
reason the dog has so many friends: He wags his tail instead of
his tongue. —Author Unknown
A
quote by Allen Schoen and Pam Proctor has been a guiding principle for me in my
work. In their book entitled Love,
Miracles, and Animal Healing, they state, “By their very presence in our
midst, animals awaken in us the desire to respond and to love.” The work that
our Therapy Dogs accomplished in NYC really exemplified this and it brought to
the forefront the profound and compelling bond between humans and animals. As
our dogs were approached by each and every person, they instantly responded with
compassion and love—no questions, no tough demands. Their touch brought warmth
and comfort to many broken hearts. They helped people to relax—perhaps even to
open up a bit and let the words—or the tears—begin. For others, the dogs
brought a smile to their faces—a brief but important respite from the shocking
pain and sorrow. For the children, they brought joy and comfort—a safe bridge
between child and adult—a way to connect, a chance amidst the confusion and
sadness to laugh and to play. For the other volunteers and relief workers, our
dogs were invaluable in providing a break from the intensity of emotion. They
brought a sense of normalcy to these abnormal times, simplicity amidst the
chaos, and they created a cozy sense of security and warmth throughout the
Center.
In
short, our dogs have played a valuable role in helping others to begin the
healing process after the tragedy of September 11. They have also helped all of
us to put things in perspective and to reconnect with life’s simple and most
important values. It never ceases to amaze me how quickly and effectively our
dogs can touch others’ hearts and help them to heal. Despite my years of
training, experience, and education, I will always believe that sometimes the
most effective kind of therapy begins with a cold, wet nose and ends with the
wag of a tail. I know that in NYC, there are many that would agree. (2)
Sarah
Sypniewski, a 23-year-old caseworker for the Red Cross, was also assigned to
work at the Family Assistance Center at Pier 94 in New York City just a few
weeks after the World Trade Center was destroyed. Her task was to evaluate the
victims who came to the center, and to give general guidance as to where they
might receive assistance in those days of crisis. Day by day, as those with
needs came to her for help, she had a hard time holding herself together, much
less helping others. Yet as a result of TDI’s therapy dogs—who showed up
every day at the pier—she was able to make it through. Daily the dogs
approached both workers and victims, bringing a sense of hope, relief, and
friendliness into an otherwise almost unbearable situation.
On
the day before she left New York for her return flight to California, she penned
this memorable poem to honor the gentle animals that so deeply soothed her soul:
Paws
Amidst Pain
Dedicated
to the therapy dogs at PIER 94 in NYC who worked so hard
responding
to the human mess of 9/11, particularly to my special friend, Wusel.
Thank
you, dogs and humans, for your undying love.
The
hours upon hours you pad through these paths of pain,
are the hours you help us see the light through the pouring rain.
You never falter, never fail, and always call to mind,
the joy and inspiration that’s sometimes hard to find.
As
we muddle through the wreckage that’s half hope and half despair,
You
stand by like an anchor, tail wagging in the air.
With
every touch you heal us, from fur to human heart,
solace
in each stroke, you prevent our falling apart.
You
never complain and though you cry, you do not show your tears,
you
swallow them back, hold your post, and calm so many fears.
Your
spirit penetrates our beings right into our souls,
you
let us touch and talk to you as we try to fill the holes.
There
are times we want to just give up and head back to our homes,
and
there you are with pricked up ears, and then we’re not alone.
You
sigh, surrender, and knowingly roll onto your back;
“Here’s
my tummy—you can have it . . . just give me a snack.”
You
do so much for us we just can’t do ourselves,
you
specialize in soulspeak that never ceases to delve
straight
into the place we do not talk about.
You
let us cry and let us laugh and get all of it out.
So
before I go, I want to say I hope you know the truth:
You
saved me every single day,
I
survived because of you. (3)
By
Sarah Sypniewski
L.A.
County Program Coordinator
National
Readiness and Response Corps
Written on 11/02/01
Chapter
2
Terrific
Tales of Animal Heroism
The average dog is a nicer person than the
average person.
—Andrew
A. Rooney
Derek,
a golden retriever, is truly a “life saver.”
Doctors agree that on a number of occasions he saved his human companion,
Steve Wilson, from probable death or disability.
Derek –somehow –has the uncanny ability to sense when Steve is about
to experience myocardial ischemia—lack of blood supply to his heart.
On a number of occasions Derek’s, barks, whimpers, and prodding
stimulated Steve to remove himself from precarious situations.
Where those situations really all that dangerous?
Consider this: The only two times Steve ignored his dog, he suffered a
heart attack.
No
one can explain how Derek does it. Some
think he senses when an experience is particularly stressful to his companion.
Others conjecture the retriever’s keen sense of smell hones in on faint
odors emanating from Steve’s body that indicate early changes in heart blood
supply or elevated stress hormone levels. Steve
Wilson can’t explain it either, but there’s no question in his mind:
He owes his life to his dog.
Although
Derek’s life saving abilities might seem highly unusual, his story is only the
proverbial tip of the iceberg as to documented cases of animal heroics.
Anna, an aged Siamese cat, defended Susan Burleson from a burglar who
broke into her apartment by pouncing upon the intruder and mercilessly clawing
his neck and face. Hugo, a burly Rottweiler, dragged Rachel, his paraplegic
companion, to safety after she was knocked unconscious in a car wreck.
Shadow, a black quarter horse, intervened between two-year old Dusty and
a raging bull, sparing the youth’s life.
One
of the greatest compilers of animal rescue efforts is the world-famous producer
of pet food—Heinz Pet Products. Since 1954, Heinz has granted an annual “Dog
Hero of the Year” award to certain animals for noble feats of heroism. Every
year, after numerous submissions into the contest describing incredible
life-and-death dramas, the following courageous canines won the prize:
Mehlville,
Missouri, 1959: Lady, a mixed breed, frantically searched for help and brought
back two telephone linemen to rescue a three-year-old boy who was sinking in a
muddy swamp.
Euless,
Texas, 1968: When his two-year-old master wandered away from home and started
playing in the midst of traffic, Ringo the mixed breed barked and ran circles
around the boy to divert oncoming cars.
John’s
Island, South Carolina, 1973: A 14-month-old Saint Bernard named Budweiser saved
one of his owner’s grandchildren, then another, by dragging them by their
shirts from a burning house.
Cleveland,
Ohio, 1980: Woodie, a mixed breed, broke his hip when he leaped from an
eighty-foot cliff to rescue Ray, his owner’s fiancé, who fell from the cliff
and landed face down in a river. The wounded dog kept Ray’s face above water
until help arrived.
It’s
character that counts. We should show unconditional love to our families,
loyalty to our friends, and always seek to protect them from harm. When we fully
attain such an exalted character, we will finally exhibit the normal traits of a
dog. —Author Unknown
Dickenson,
North Carolina, 1986: Together, Champ, a terrier, and Buddy, a mixed breed, led
their owners to a nearby warehouse where an injured truck driver was trapped
beneath a 2,680-pound earth mover tire.
Watsonville,
California, 1989: During the San Francisco earthquake, Reona the Rottweiler
saved a frightened five-year-old epileptic girl by pushing the child aside just
before a microwave oven fell from the top of a refrigerator. The dog then calmed
the young girl and prevented her from having a seizure.
Tullahoma,
Tennessee, 1992: When Sparky’s burly 227-pound owner, Bo, collapsed from a
heart attack during a morning walk, this 130-pound yellow Labrador Retriever
dragged his master nearly 200 yards. Bo made it to the hospital just in time for
his condition to be stabilized.
Imperial
Beach, California, 1993: During large scale flooding in Southern California’s
Tijuana River valley, Weela’s repeated heroism over a three-month period saved
30 people, 29 dogs, 13 horses and one cat, all of whom otherwise may have
perished in the flood.
Tucson,
Arizona, 1996: Despite being shot five times by a home invader, Brandy kept up
her fight and chased the attacker out, saving the life of his owner.
LaBelle,
Florida, 2002: Two-year-old Blue, an Australian blue heeler, rescued his
eighty-five-year-old owner from a vicious alligator attack and survived numerous
injuries from the dangerous encounter. (4)
Indeed,
the world is replete with stories about pets saving the lives of their human
companions. These miraculous tales
involve a wide spectrum of God’s creatures–dogs, cats, horses, birds,
dolphins, ocean turtles, and even pigs. It’s true. Literally thousands of
human beings have been personally awed to see their beloved pets courageously
intervene on their behalf.
Bumper
stickers and highway signs often rightfully say, “Jesus Saves.”
In a
far limited way, sometimes animals do, too.
Part 2: The Pet-Health Connection
Chapter 3
Lassie Can Lengthen Your Life
“Believe
it or not, the secret to growing old gracefully, healthily and even happily may
be lying at your feet and licking itself. Research has shown that pets—or even
the presence of animals—have indisputable medical benefits. From lowering
blood pressure to easing anxiety and depression, Fido and Kitty are more
effective than much of what medical science has in its arsenal.”
—The
Sunday Times, December 9, 2001
Janie, a golden retriever,
waltzed into the room of a patient at Cedars-Sinai Medical Center who had
refused to talk with anyone for weeks, and did something no medical treatment
had been able to do. She put her paws on the edge of the bed, and the patient
leaned over, stroked her ears and began talking. The scene astonished the
attending physician and underscored a growing interest among health-care
professionals in what is now being referred to as “the healing power of
pets” (5).
“Pooch
Power: Researchers Document How Pets Keep People Healthy” was the title of an
ABC News report (6). "It's an up and coming field," says Lana Kaiser,
a physician, veterinarian and professor at Michigan State University. Dr. Kaiser
is also the driving force behind the “Human-Animal Bond Initiative,” an
initiative which has sponsored three national conferences on the Michigan campus
bringing researches together from across North America. Their motto is,
"Cuddle a Critter and Call Me in the Morning," Kaiser says.
While
animal heroics often make headlines, a growing array of research suggests that
dogs, cats, horses and other four-legged companions assist us in daily living by
reducing stress, lowering blood pressure, easing loneliness, aiding the recovery
efforts of accident victims, counteracting depression, and promoting general
well-being in humans. Thus dogs are not only man’s best friend, but good
medicine for what ails us. In fact, in many cases, Fido may work better than
Tylenol.
The
Delta Society, an organization promoting the animal-human bond, has for many
years funded research “on how animals affect health and well-being” (7).
Founded in 1977, one of the society’s stated goals is to “Expand awareness
of the positive effect animals can have on human health and development.”
Dr.
Bonnie Beaver, professor in the Department
of Small Animal Medicine and Surgery at the Texas A&M University College of
Veterinary Medicine, has added her
much-respected voice to the growing chorus of pets-are-good-for-us
documentation. Throughout her years of working with animals she has compiled a
long list of studies proving that pets are health-promoting indeed (8).
A wide
variety of research and documentation has revealed:
Pet
owners have lower cholesterol levels than non-owners. | |
Heart
attack victims who own pets survive longer than those who don’t. | |
Pet
owners are generally in better physical condition because they spend more
time outdoors exercising Rover. |
Pets
provide therapeutic touch. | |
Pets
lower blood pressure. | |
Pet
owners have better psychological well-being. | |
Pets
improve children’s reading scores, empathy and perhaps their I.Q. | |
Pets
help combat allergies. (When children are exposed at a young age to animals,
immunities are built up which actually help prevent allergies). |
100
senior citizens on Medicare who owned dogs made 21 percent fewer visits to
their doctor than those without dogs. |
Thus Max and Kitty are good for
baby, junior, mom, dad, grandma and grandpa. So why fret about a few dog or cat
hairs on the sofa if our pets can add life to our days and length to our years?
Beyond the above mentioned blessings, Dr. David DeRose has discovered three
additional health benefits of owning a critter:
Indeed,
when you look at all the health benefits of pets, they may be one of the most
under-prescribed therapeutic agents in the world.
In
the pages that follow, Dr. DeRose will prove these statements by walking you
through some of the exciting research that links pet ownership with improved
health. Plus he’ll give you more
reasons to be enthusiastic about your animal companions.
However, as a doctor, he also seen another side and has viewed cases
where animals have brought harm to humans.
You yourself—or a close family member of friend—may have a pet
“horror story” seared into your mind (or buried in your unconscious).
This doesn’t undermine the value of our fine furred and feathered
friends. However, it does point out that there are some potential
pitfalls in pet ownership. Dr.
DeRose take a look at these as well—for it’s only as you make appropriate
pet choices for in own circumstances that you can fully tap into their healing
power.
Bottom line: The latest research
proves that pets are good for
us–when precautions are taken. For those who love their animals, the risks and
responsibilities are well worth it, paying big dividends.
Why not own one today?
Unleashing
the Power of the Bond
Old dog Tray is ever
faithful;
Grief can not drive him away;
He is gentle, he is kind—
I shall never, never find
A better friend than old dog Tray!
--Stephen
Collins Foster (1826-1864)
What do you do with an at-risk kid who has problems even showing up at school? If you ask Jennifer Wise she’ll probably say, “Get him involved with animals.” Jennifer heads up the innovative Kids and Canines program at the Dorothy Thomas Exceptional Center. (9) Located in the Tampa Bay community of Carrolwood, the program gives selected truant high school students the responsibility of training service dogs. The creative strategy is paying big dividends throughout Hillsborough County. Teenager’s lives change as they work around the even tempered golden retrievers. The students consistently improve in school attendance and academic performance. For example, one of the student-trainers went from chronic truant to student council member and peer mediator. Community residents with disabilities are additional beneficiaries, receiving well-trained assistance dogs.
The
benefits accruing to these youth are due to what researchers have called “the
animal-human bond” or simply “the bond.”
These terms refer to the intimate relationship that often forms between
humans and their companion animals. A
number of scientific studies have looked at the far reaching implications of
long-term human-animal relationships. Position
papers and review articles have summarized these research insights, web sites
have disseminated the information; and popular books have distilled and
illustrated the scientific findings. There is even an entire group of veterinarians who especially
champion the importance of “the bond.”
They call themselves The
American Association of Human-Animal Bond Veterinarians (AAHABV) (10)
..
Pets
are far more than mere consumers of our affection and care.
Overall, the research indicates that human-pet interactions offer
profound benefits to humans—regardless of age or ethnicity.
For example, consider a sampling of the benefits that have been linked to
the human-animal bond across the age span. (11)(12)(13)(14)
In Childhood and Adolescence
·
Increased
self esteem
·
Reduces
loneliness
·
Helps
autistic children to better connect with their surroundings
·
Fosters
sensitivity, nurturing, and other humanitarian attitudes
·
Provides
emotional stability for foster children
·
Promotes
responsibility
·
Helps
develop empathy
·
Improves
physical and verbal skills in developmentally challenged youth
·
Buffers the
effects of stress in traumatized children
In
Young and Mid-Adulthood
·
Reduces
minor health problems
·
Improves
socialization
·
Lowers
blood pressure in the face of stress
·
Decreases
anxiety and despair in psychiatric institutions
·
Help
patients cope with cancer
In
Older Adulthood
·
Enhances
quality of life
·
Improves
survival following a heart attack
·
Fosters
appropriate social behavior in the mentally impaired
·
Helps to
combat depression in seniors who lack human social support
·
Increases
adherence to intensive treatment regimens such as cardiac
rehabilitation
·
Reduces
loneliness
·
Improves
appetite in under-eating patients with Alzheimer’s Disease
How
can you tap into this long list of benefits?
What can you do to unleash the power of the bond in your own life?
Of course, it all starts with inviting a pet to share part of your life
(if you haven’t already done so). However,
the mere presence of an animal in your home or apartment does not ensure
benefit. A pet that you seldom
interact with likely offers you little in the way of the power of the bond.
Just as with human social relations, the human-animal bond appears to be
best fostered by a critical element—spending time together.
Therefore,
evaluate your level of interaction with your pets.
If you have one or more companion animals but don’t think you’re
getting any health benefits, why not make more of an effort to experience “the
bond?” Get more involved with
your pet. Take the dog for a walk.
Buy some new toys and play with your cat.
Change the environment in your aquarium and watch how the fish respond.
What
if you’re not a pet lover—or if you love animals but your health care
professional has made you promise to keep your distance because of allergies or
an impaired immune system? These
are important issues. First, I’d
never advise that you disregard your doctor’s advice.
Second, if the very thought of a pet raises your blood pressure—then
step back and ask yourself seriously if you may be over-reacting.
I
find many people that can’t imagine having a dog or a cat may be very
comfortable with the idea of having fish or some other lower maintenance
companion. Although fish don’t
typically conjure up warm fuzzy emotions, research suggests they, too, provide
health benefits. For example,
studies indicate that gazing at fish in an aquarium relaxes both mind and body,
thus relieving stress. In other
words, question your own resistance to having a pet.
Perhaps a few bad experiences with one or more species have impaired your
objectivity when it comes to the benefits of companion animals. If so, you might
want to take a second look and reconsider the matter. The truth is that millions
of normal human beings just like you have discovered tremendous benefits from
having animals around. Maybe you should try having just one – a small dog or
cat. You might like it.
Asking
these questions is probably more important for some than others.
Current research about “the bond” suggests that those with the fewest
supportive social connections have the greatest need for interaction with
animals. In other words, those who
don’t have many friends stand to get the greatest benefit from opening their
hearts to a loving and loyal four-legged companion. If
you’re lonely, try visiting a local pound or animal shelter a saving the life
of a dog or cat on death row. Most likely, in time, you’ll be glad you did.
Even if you feel that you don’t have the time or energy for a pet—think
again. Many times our energy level
and enthusiasm are low because of depressive tendencies.
Pets can be mood elevators. They pick us up and make us smile.
You
may be surrounded by people—but you still may lack nurturing support.
If you are dealing with a serious illness like cancer or AIDS, your
normally supportive friends and relatives may be at a loss to know how to
provide true support. Companion
animals, with their loving unconditional acceptance, can provide a powerful
emotional boost—especially in tough times. If fact, cases are known of people
on the verge of suicide who decided to drop the razor, drive away from the
bridge, or put the pills away because of Fido’s friendliness or the purrs of
Fluffy.
Having
said all this, I must admit, however, that for certain individuals having
animals around may not be what they need at this time in their lives.
In this light, if your spouse isn’t ready, don’t brow beat them into
embracing a Great Dane. I didn’t write this chapter to provide ammunition for your
latest argument for owning a pet, especially if it upsets a human relationship
with a significant other. If your spouse or roommate really doesn’t want an
animal, don’t be pushy, or you may pay too high a price.
Still,
the benefits of the bond are so far reaching that it behooves us all to ask the
question: Am I missing some—or
all—of this powerful healing influence in my life?
If you answer in the affirmative, don’t mourn your loss.
Rejoice in your new insight—and do something about it. There are plenty
of animals out there just waiting for you to become the most important person in
their lives. While not exactly people like us, animals have feelings, too. They
get lonely, frightened, and suffer greatly when they lack food, warmth,
friendship, and love. Some animal out there may need to be rescued—by you. If
you do, you may find they will return the favor by rescuing
you from depression and loneliness as well.
Cats
regard people as warm-blooded furniture.
-Jacquelyn Mitchard,
author of The Deep End of the Ocean
Within
moments of walking into Fran’s house, Richard’s watering eyes, running nose
and impending sneeze told him he was in feline territory. Richard always liked cats—but don’t give him a kitten on
his next birthday. His extreme
allergies to these beloved pets have eliminated them from his wish list.
How
do we deal with pets when it seems they’re often implicated in allergic
diseases? First of all we need to
get all the facts—and these facts
are not as straightforward as some would lead us to believe.
When
someone is allergic to a class of animals—like cats—it doesn’t necessarily
take a huge amount of exposure to trigger a reaction. Consider a study performed at the famous Karolinska Hospital
in Stockholm, Sweden. (15) Researchers there under the direction of Dr. Catarina
Almqvist, identified over 400
grade school children with a unique profile.
Each of them was being treated for asthma, had a documented
allergy to cats, and yet not one of them had a cat in their home.
In fact, 92 of these children had absolutely no contact with any furred
pets over the study’s three week time period.
However, the researchers made an interesting observation regarding these
students. If any of those 92
individuals were in a schoolroom where over 18% of their non-allergic classmates
had cats, they were more likely to have measurable decreases in lung function,
increased days with asthma symptoms, and greater use of asthma medications.
All told, cat-allergic children sitting in schoolrooms and surrounded by
a significant number of cat owners had nine times the risk of worsened asthma,
compared to similarly predisposed children who were not around so many other
kids who owned a feline.
One
implication of this study is that many individuals have exquisitely sensitive
pet allergies. Presumably even the
cat dander on their classmates clothing was enough to have measurable ill health
effects. Granted, these classroom
situations provide relatively low levels of allergen exposure.
However the amount of allergens in the air is by no means insignificant.
By actual measurement the same Swedish research group found that cat
owners’ clothing indeed carries pet allergens into the school environment—and
that those allergens are subsequently naturally dispersed into the classroom
air.
Studies
like this, documenting the profound potential for pet-related allergies, have
caused some to conclude that, despite the positive benefits discussed earlier,
they would rather relegate animals to someone else’s house, to a pet store, to
the streets, or at least out of sight. However,
such conclusions are both hasty and often unwarranted.
On
the other hand, there is another body of research literature which suggests that
pets in the home may actually decrease
the risk of allergic problems (including asthma) in some children—as well as
adults. University of Bergen (Norway) researcher Dr. Cecilie
Svanes and colleagues also looked at the impact of childhood pet ownership on
adult allergies in the multi-national European Community Respiratory Health
Survey. (16) They found that
individuals who had a dog in childhood were less likely to develop common
allergies later in life (such as sensitivities to cats, grasses, or house dust
mites). Children from allergically
predisposed families also appeared to benefit if they grew up with cats in the
home. As adults, those individuals
were less prone to allergies.
One
theory is that these childhood encounters with animals stimulate the body to
develop certain Special Forces called “IgG antibodies” which protect humans
against inhaled pet proteins. These
antibodies are like little safety features which help prevent the triggering of
allergies. Another theory proposes that pets expose a child’s respiratory
system to a number of germs and related compounds that may actually have
long-term favorable effects. As
strange as that may sound, there is strong evidence for this. The Swiss researcher, Dr. Charlotte Braun-Fahrländer, is a leading proponent of the “hygiene hypothesis” which suggests
that growing up in cleaner, pet-free, more germ-free environments may actually foster
the development of allergies and asthma because the human body does not develop
enough Special Forces to resist these problems.
The bottom line is that there are a multitude of factors that influence development of allergies—both in childhood as well as in later life. From the information in hand, it seems unwarranted to exclude pets from the home simply because of fear that allergies might develop. However, every case is unique, and there may be some compelling situations where certain types of pets might be ill-advised in certain homes. If you have such questions, consult with your doctor – but only ask if there are health issues and real evidence to cause concern. In such cases, you always want to be guided by facts and the reasonable counsel of a trained professional.
If
you know you’re already allergic to a certain species of animal, and yet you
really want to own one as a pet, you’ll likely need to apply one or more
strategies before you can coexist with those particular creatures—without
undue discomfort. The strategy most
often employed is over-the-counter of prescription medication.
This is only a short-term solution—it does nothing to influence the
allergy itself. You’ll get more
mileage if you can keep your exposure down to the particular substance that
causes the allergy. For example try a short haired dog, as opposed to a long
haired one. Additionally, consider
seeing an allergist for immunotherapy or “allergy shots.”
With this help, in time, you can actually build up a tolerance to the
pets you love.
Here’s
another important point: Even if you have documented allergies to one or more
animal species, the problem may not lie
wholly with the animals. I have
had many patients over the years tell me that their lifestyle habits
significantly influenced the severity of their allergies.
In other words, even a pet-allergic person may be able to function with
little or no symptoms—even around a type of pet they are allergic to—simply
by making certain health-related changes in their daily lives. Based on responses from my patients and insights from medical
literature, I advocate five promising lifestyle strategies to help foster the
happy state of enjoying your pet without suffering from allergies:
Some
years ago a patient of mine, Richard Boston, enthusiastically strode over to me
at a wedding reception. He
wanted to make sure he thanked me for how I had helped him to overcome his
allergies. Richard explained that the remarkable improvement came as a
result of following my instructions to drink more water. As much as I would like to take credit for this amazing bit
of medical wisdom, I must admit that my water advocacy was not specifically
allergy-related at the time. Until that day at the wedding reception, I had
never thought that water drinking could prevent allergies, but in his case, it
seemed to have worked!
My
interest in the therapeutic implications of this simple beverage increased when
a number of Richard’s family members talked with me at the same reception. Each not only confirmed his story—but said that their
allergies also had been helped by more liberal water consumption.
Of course, this interesting family report surely does not constitute
scientific proof of anything. However,
the experience at least caused me to make a mental note of the association.
Since most of my patients could stand to drink water for other reasons,
I’ve felt free to share with them this anecdotal report.
My comfort level in discussing water intake in the context of allergies
has also been increased by bone fide research that has found a connection
between skin allergic conditions and both hard water and higher water chlorine
content. (17)(18). Drinking more pure soft water, may indeed help allergic
conditions. Will it help your pet
allergy? Perhaps—but it may have
more to do with the fact that your increased water intake is now replacing other
harmful fluids that may contribute to stirring up your allergies.
One
of those fluids is alcohol. A body
of scientific research now suggests that alcoholic beverages may predispose to
allergy development as well as increasing established allergic problems. (19)
Both moderate and heavy alcohol users tend to have increased amounts of another
substance called IgE, which can contribute to allergies.
Are you on the fence when it comes to the pros and cons of alcohol
drinking? On top of other
medically-proven benefits to your liver and brain, if you have allergies, I
would suggest that the balance tips in favor of total abstinence.
Try it. Give yourself a couple of months and see if you notice any
difference, especially around furry pets. You may be pleasantly surprised at the
improvement, just like my friend Richard Boston was surprised at the benefits of
drinking more water.
There
is no question that dairy products are common causes of allergy and intolerance.
What is more difficult to say is whether the presence of dairy can
accentuate other pre-existing allergies such as those to pollens, pets, or dust.
While I can’t make a compelling case for dairy avoidance from anything
I’ve reviewed in the medical research literature, I can say that many of my
patients over the years have told me that their allergies to other
things improved dramatically when they removed dairy from their diets.
That cumulative testimony has encouraged me to spread the word to other
patients, many of whom have also reported good results.
Let’s face it, if skipping milk products might be the key between
enjoying pets and being miserable around them, a trial of a dairy-free regimen
is worth it for many.
However,
obvious dairy avoidance is not a panacea. Some
people forgo major dairy products with little or no benefit.
To really give yourself a fair trial of a dairy free diet, you have to be
a bit more careful and to read labels. It’s
simply not enough to switch from cow’s milk to soy milk on your cereal and
then to pass on those cheesy pizzas and ice cream. In reality, one needs to
exclude all things with hidden dairy constituents. When you look at the labels
of certain foods, here are some of the normally unrecognized ingredients that
betray dairy’s presence: Whey,
casein, caseinate, lactalbumin, lactose, and milk solids. Believe it or not,
these smaller, hidden ingredients may contribute to allergies also.
Besides
the potential impact of our daily choices of food and beverages, other lifestyle
factors can play a role in dealing with allergies—to pets, and in general. I’ve had a number of patients tell me that regular physical
exercise is a significant factor in decreasing their allergic symptoms.
Because of exercise’s broad range of health giving effects, it is
prudent for each of us to prioritize physical activity.
If you’ve been lacking motivation, and you have pet allergies, why not
give it a try? Increase your
exercise and see if it makes any difference.
Keeping
fresh air circulating throughout your house is definitely a winning strategy.
The bottom line is that anything that can decrease the amount of pet
dander in the air you breathe everyday is likely to help.
This can range from something as sophisticated as installing a
high-efficiency air filter in your home to something as simple as keeping your
windows open more frequently to let Heaven’s breezes blow in.
I know, you may enjoy cuddling with Rover or Felix, but when allergy is
part of the picture it’s better to try to sleep in a different room from your
four-legged friends. Better still
is to keep your pet entirely out of the sleeping room—even when you are not in
there. You may be surprised at the difference this makes.
Fresh
air is one of the neglected health-giving agents.
Fortunately our pets help us prioritize this easily overlooked commodity.
Consider Rocco, my brother Ken’s Jack Russell terrier.
The dog epitomizes perpetual motion.
If he’s inside, there’s something more exciting outside.
After being outdoors for a few minutes, Rocco usually decides its time to
come back in.
Now,
I can’t imagine Rocco going even a few hours without getting fresh air.
It doesn’t matter what the temperature is – he wants to get out.
Perhaps,
it’s the freedom of the outdoors he loves.
Maybe it’s the stimulation he gets from his own little doggy war
game—chasing squirrels. However,
I surmise that he and millions of other pets that are drawn to the outdoors are
lured—at least in part—by the promise of fresh air. The truth is, outside
air is really good for us!
Scientists
have discovered what I surmise our pets knew all along.
Namely that that fresh air is abundant in negatively charged ions that
have mood elevating effects. Fresh
air also helps your lungs function better by improving the natural cleansing
action of tiny lung hairs called cilia. Researchers
have also found that fresh air improves long-term human performance. Athletes who exercised out of doors in the fresh air and
sunshine made greater strength improvement than those who followed the same
regimen within four walls.
Perhaps
this provides another insight into why your Retriever is not content walking
with you on an indoor treadmill—or why your cat won’t settle for the same
routine. Animals love to be out of
doors, and this may be result in one of their greatest gifts to their owners.
They motivate us to get off the couch, away from the TV, and into
that healing outdoor environment.
In
summary, a goodly amount of research—combined with practical
experience—suggests that
children may actually gain allergy protection from growing up around animals.
And even if adults or children do have allergies, there are lifestyle
strategies—as well as medical options that can make a difference.
And some of those options like getting more fresh air—may not only
lessen our allergies, but they bring with them the promise of many other
health-enhancing effects.
Thus
Fido or Fluffy may help decrease our allergies after all, which is one more
reason to consider sharing your life with a critter.
Chapter Seven:
Indecency,
vulgarity, obscenity - - these are strictly confined to man;
he
invented them. Among the higher animals there is no trace of them.
They
hide nothing. They are not ashamed.
Mark Twain (1835
– 1910)
Towering
sky scrapers. Traffic jams.
Crowded shopping malls. Regardless
of whether such imagery brings positive or negative emotions, these descriptions
confront us with a stark reality. Most
of us live lives far separated from an intimate relationship with our natural
environment.
This
distancing carries with it both benefits as well as liabilities.
It’s wonderful to live above many of the whims of nature, holed up in a
house or apartment with central heat and air-conditioning.
I’m thankful to be able to hop in a car, board a train, or soar in a
plane and cover distances
unimaginable to my surefooted or horse-backed predecessors.
And how can we but be thankful for indoor plumbing and mechanized devices
that save us a trip to the nearest stream or well for such mundane duties as
washing ourselves or our clothing?
However,
residing in a largely artificial world of electronic gadgets, fast foods, and
labor saving devices has also allowed us—in some respects—to lose sight of
ourselves. We know much more about
human physiology than our progenitors, but we often seem to have less insight
into how to translate what we know into action. From my vantage point as a physician, it seems that in the
midst of all our progress we have largely lost the ability to sense what our
bodies really need and address those concerns.
Furthermore, in days filled with largely meaningless activities (such as
keeping up with the latest soap opera, TV serial, or sporting event), it is easy
to forget to take care of ourselves.
My
observations are not unique. Whether
you talk about Native Americans, aboriginal Australians or indigenous peoples of
other nations, all saw their health and well being as inextricably connected
with nature. Our ancestors knew
that ill health was the sure result of losing sight of our connection to the
natural world around us.
Over
the last several decades there has been a crescendo of interest in protecting
our environment. It comes as no
surprise. We read about fish so
contaminated with mercury that they are unsafe to eat, about the broad range of
ill health effects linked to air pollution, and about the dangers of water
pollution stemming from pesticides and industrial waste.
Researchers also warn of the results of the stresses that are inherent in
our artificial, mechanized environments.
This
growing realization in many urban settings has resulted in a renewed interest in
connecting with nature. This may
sound well and good for those with sufficient means to take frequent vacations
from their urban surroundings, but how about those who simply cannot afford
frequent forays into nature? Then
again, if you live within a large American city – otherwise known as the
“concrete jungle” – can a weekend trip satisfy the need to reconnect with
pleasant fields, mountains and forests?
Regardless
of where we live, pets provide a unique connection with the natural world and in
so doing offer a wonderful pathway toward the fulfillment of our deepest
longings to return to a simple life. Despite
modernization, consciously or unconsciously most of us are becoming aware of our
need to find wholeness through connection with the larger world in which we
live. This is not just
philosophizing on my part. When the
National Institutes of Health convened a panel of experts in 1987 to discuss the
negative effects of city living and “the rat race,” they too suggested that
pet ownership “may reflect a largely urban population's often unsatisfied need
for intimacy, nurturance, and contact with nature.”
(20) Dr Bruce Headey echoed a similar sentiment in a recent editorial
when he stated, “At a fundamental level, the benefits of pets appear linked to
the human desire to be close to nature and other living creatures.” (21)
Perhaps
one of the reasons we are so drawn to our pets is that these companion animals
are so simple and unpretentious. They are also in tune with their environment
and the needs of their bodies to a much greater degree than we are.
There is no question that this ecological awareness can have profound
health implications. By watching the good examples of our pets we can be inspired
to change our lifestyle in ways that can enhance our health.
Whether it is seeing Fido’s pure enjoyment of exercise or listening to
the chirping of your parakeets, we can gain valuable insights into our own
condition and need for more of a simple life.
Today
many of the diseases we succumb to are largely the result of our choices.
In 1994 Drs McGinnis and Foege published landmark research that for the
first time looked not at what people ostensibly died from (like heart disease,
cancer or stroke) but rather at the underlying factors that resulted in their
demise. (22) Those factors were largely lifestyle related.
The top three causes they identified were:
tobacco (claiming approximately 400,000 lives per year), poor
diet and activity patterns (leading to the death of 300,000 annually), and
alcohol (linked to 100,000 casualties).
Animals
by their lifestyle practices often speak to us eloquently of what we need to
prioritize. Just try to skip
Lassie’s walk, and she’ll let you know you’re priorities need to be
adjusted. Attempt to give your
horse some other fluid than water to drink and you’ll get some immediate
feedback. These beloved creatures
are responding to the needs of their body—and the pressures of paying the
bills, resolving family arguments, or the latest Wall Street numbers don’t
impact those drives. We can learn a lesson here.
Our
pets also speak to us through their less exemplary characteristics.
Now, I know you may be tempted to color your pet’s behaviors in the
most appealing hues (especially if you are often defending them before
non-animal lovers). However, unless
you are the fortunate owner of highly exemplary pets who hardly ever mess up –
that is, they have never once had an accident on the carpet in front of guests!
– then you’ve had plenty of occasions to observe behaviors unworthy of
modeling.
These
lapses from perfect behavior don’t really undermine the value or overall
health benefits of our pets. In
fact, I would argue that the faults of our companion animals may be equally as
valuable as their good traits—at least when it comes to speaking to us about
our own lifestyle.
Think
about it for a moment. Do you have
any friends that can graciously expose your greatest faults?
If you do, do they leave you smiling after the encounter?
Such human interactions are rare indeed.
However, our pets do this often. We
laugh or smile at their faults only to realize that we’re viewing an
animal-version of some of our own bad habits.
Our
pets have the ability to speak to us in ways that no one else can.
Consider our two dogs, Bruno and Tuxie.
The behavior of Bruno, a male German Shepherd, speaks volumes on the
subject of jealousy. There’s no question he’s top dog when it comes to him and
Tuxie (a female Lab-Great Pyrenees mix). However,
being king of dogs is not sufficient on the DeRose ranch.
Just try to pet Tuxie—or show her any modicum of affection.
Bruno will immediately push Tuxie aside and vie for your attention.
Now,
I know some animal behaviorists will say that Bruno’s behavior is solely
driven by canine biological factors. They
would take issue with my use of the word “jealousy.” But in the drama that plays out every time we display
affection to our dogs, each one who beholds these two is still confronted with a
solemn question: “Do I ever act
the same way?” Do I ever feel
that I have to be the focus of attention all the time?
Does my own human behavior reveal an attitude that says, “Me first!”
above the needs of others?
Regardless
of the strength of our bond, regardless of whether I am just a casual observer
or an intimate human companion to my pet, Bruno’s less than exemplary behavior
speaks volumes to me. And the
behaviors of your pets do the same to you.
In their good moments as well as their bad ones, our animals are
providing a special window through which we can learn valuable lessons about the
importance of unselfish behavior and a better way to live.
This
aspect of pets as mirrors into our own characters transcends the normal
interpretation of the bond. Yet, it
is their very capacity to endear themselves to humankind—to bond with
us—that causes us to pause long enough to learn from their ways.
Furthermore, there is something about animals that inspires the child in
all of us. From yesterday’s
Disney classics to today’s Animal Planet channel, from Black Beauty to Bambi,
animals have always inspired us with their uncensored affections.
When we – like them – interact on a more simple and unguarded,
childlike level, the quality of our own lives not only improves, but we even
love our pets more. Not only that, but it seems that even our ability to learn
from these beloved creatures increases.
To
summarize much of this material, owning a pet or being around animals may
enhance our human health for a variety of reasons:
These
latter two areas dealing with the example of our animal companions—both good
and bad—are worth a careful look. In
addition, I have seen in my own life how pets can provide instruction in four
other areas (discussed in the next four chapters); areas that concern the most
powerful natural health-giving factors that humanity can embrace:
Sunshine
Nutrition
Social and Spiritual health
God
placed animals on planet Earth for a reason, and we can learn wonderful lessons
if we are only willing to stop long enough to listen intently, observe
carefully, and gather wisdom from their examples.
Is
Exercise Just For the Dogs?
You
can’t help someone get up a hill
without
getting closer to the top yourself.
-General H. Norman Schwarzkopf
“Its
time for my walk, It’s time for my walk,” Timmy’s bark seems to say.
His human companion, Edna, is quite attuned to this appeal.
And I have some first hand knowledge of the subject as well.
You see, Edna is both my wife’s mother and a periodic resident at the
DeRose ranch. When she visits us
from her home state of Tennessee she never comes alone. Timmy, her affectionate dog, always makes the trip with her.
None of us know his pedigree, but that cute little guy really knows the
importance of exercise. When his walk is overdue, he’ll let you know in no
uncertain terms.
As
we’ve already observed, most pets have the same knack as Timmy.
When it comes to activity, they seem to be in better touch with what
their bodies need than we are. It’s
no surprise—they have fewer distractions.
They’re not concerned about balancing the check book or meeting the
yearly demands of the I.R.S. They
are not concerned about how business is doing or whether Dow Jones Industrial
Average or NASDAQ goes up or down. So
why don’t we listen to their example?
Let’s
face it; even if we don’t listen to their examples, we listen to their barks.
When our pets say it’s time to exercise, we generally kick into
gear—at least for their sakes—secretly knowing it’s also best for us.
Whole
treatises have been written on exercise, but it’s worth reiterating just how
powerful a health-giving agency simple activity is. If you are trying to lower your blood pressure or improve
your cholesterol numbers, make sure exercise is on your list.
If you are looking for a natural way to boost your mood—or control
anxiety—don’t forget to move your legs beyond frequent trips to the
refrigerator. Are you afraid of diabetes? Exercise
has proven value in preventing this modern day high blood sugar scourge.
You can even improve pregnancy outcomes and decrease your risk of certain
cancers by regular physical activity. The truth is, proverbial “couch
potatoes” do get sick more.
You
likely realized that I skipped one of the greatest motivators for regular
activity—weight loss. It’s
true, regular physical activity can help you shed pounds and can also prevent
unnecessary weight gain. However,
the exercise-weight connection often works to our disadvantage.
Look at it this way. If you
are in the regular habit of overindulging on junk food, even a relatively good
exercise program may not be sufficient to counteract the girth augmenting
tendencies of your less than optimal dietary patterns.
In this scenario, if weight loss is your main exercise motivator, your
resolve can rapidly wane.
Now
think about your cat. Tabby
doesn’t run around her territory in order to fit into a new outfit.
She scampers, plays, and hunts because it’s part of her nature. She
enjoys it, for she was made for action. Honestly, activity is every bit a part
of human nature as well. Your whole physiology functions best if you exercise.
So, don’t get overly preoccupied with the bathroom scale.
Exercise provides huge benefits even if you don’t yet see the downward
trajectory of that carefully hidden needle.
To
illustrate this point, consider the work of researchers at the Cooper Clinic in
Dallas. They made some interesting
observations about physical fitness and weight that really provide a needed
perspective. Most Americans
wouldn’t hesitate if asked to choose between being thin and unfit or fit and
fat. The trim physique would win
out (and for many, so much the better if they didn’t have to pay the price of
exercise). However, the Cooper
researchers found that if you enjoy living, you’d be much better off being fit
and overweight than trim and out of shape.
At any given age, the men who were fit but fat had only half the risk of
death than their lean unfit peers.(23) Bottom line: Even if your exercise has
not resulted in a super-toned physique; studies like this one show that you are
increasing both the quality and longevity of your life by making fitness a
priority.
Yet
the news gets even better than this. Even
if your exercise does not seem to be improving your fitness—just being active
in itself—yields large health dividends. The research consistently reveals that physical activity increases
decreases your risk of heart disease, stroke and colon cancer. (24) Thus you not
only live longer, but can save money in expensive doctor bills.
“Okay,”
you say I’ve got the message. “Learn
from my horses, listen to my gerbils, follow my fish—and make it a point to
keep active.” However, you may
also be wondering if engaging in America’s most popular pet-related activity
– the “walk” – really gives you much in the way of quality exercise.
After all, even when you’re dog is leading you around by his leash, he
sure stops a lot. Contrary to many
popular notions, stopping periodically during exercise may actually increase the
benefits of the exercise rather than detracting from them.
As one of the investigators into intermittent exercise (conducted at
Oklahoma’s Lifestyle Center of America) I can tell you that we found people
lost more weight and experience a greater decrease in body fat if they
incorporated short periods of rest into their exercise routine.
This concept of “intermittent training,” or stopping and starting, is
growing in popularity. Depending on
the regimen, it may also help to improve performance, enhance thyroid function,
and decrease the risk of injury.
How
do you go about doing “intermittent exercise?”
One way is to take your dog for a walk and stop when she wants to stop.
If you want a more scientific approach, get with an exercise physiologist
or physician. They can determine
your target heart range with a treadmill test.
Once that range has been determined (say, for example its 100-110 beats
per minute), you’re ready to exercise. Using
a heart rate monitor, exercise until you reach 110 (the upper limit of your
10-beat target range); then stop your vigorous activity and “rest” by
engaging in a cool down-type exercise (like moving your feet in place while
Duchess is sniffing the fire hydrant). When
your heart rate drops to 100 (the lower limit of your 10-beat range), go back to
your more vigorous activity (apologize to your dog and tell her it’s time to
go). When an unfit person starts on
such a regimen, she may be exercising for only about 30 seconds and then resting
for 30 seconds. As she gets more
fit, however, the amount of rest time will decrease relative to the amount of
time spent in actual exercise.
What
happens if you don’t have time to get your 30 minutes per day of exercise in?
Listen to your pets. Just
let the average indoor cat get near an open door and see what happens.
If he has a chance to bolt outside he will—even if it’s only for a
few minutes. Take this message to
heart. We now know that you can
measurably improve your immune system with as little as five minutes of moderate
exercise. Besides that, the
benefits of exercise are cumulative. Five
minutes now, ten minutes later, and before you know it, you’ve put in a
half-hour for the day. As far as
many of the benefits of exercise—30 minutes spread out throughout the day is
as advantageous as a single 30 minute session.
As in
other areas, when it comes to exercise, we should take special note of the good
example of our pets. However, if
you have an animal who has been “better socialized” and likes more human
pursuits like laying around watching TV—then realize he’s been too humanized
and draw inspiration for his negative example.
Either way, make a point to get some type of regular physical exercise.
It’s best to do something six or seven days per week.
Even though I’m a big advocate of having at least one rest day per
week, on that day I don’t recommend just laying around with your feet up. I still put physical activity on the list.
But we’re talking a leisurely walk or a pleasant bicycle ride—not a
seventh day of training.
An
ancient Chinese proverb says, “The journey of a thousand miles begins with the
first step.” How true. So follow the lead of your dog, grab that leash, and
begin the trip.
Believe me, all of the
scientific research says your body will thank you.
Keep
your face to the sunshine and you cannot see the shadow.
Helen
Keller (1880 – 1968)
It’s
a cool early spring afternoon in Oklahoma.
Yesterday’s gusty winds are past and the sun beams down through a
cloudless sky. It doesn’t take
too many guesses to figure out where the animals are at the DeRose place.
You’re sure to find them all enjoying the sunshine in some way. Our quarter horse and pony are grazing in one part of the
pasture. The goats have taken a
temporary break from a similar routine and are now basking in the sun.
Gracie and Buttons, our cats, are outside stalking grasshoppers in the
green grass. Bruno and Tuxie are
playing their dog-games in the sun.
We
all know that reptiles need that warmth to raise their metabolism and increase
their efficiency at protecting themselves, hunting, mating, or whatever the
day’s activities may hold. But
why does the sun on a cool day hold attraction for the mammals who call our
place home?
Keeping
warm and enjoying the sun’s radiant heat may be the immediate motivators for
animals, however, sunshine is actually just as vital to their health as it is to
ours. Like humans, many of our pets
require sunshine to make vitamin D—an important vitamin-hormone.
Grazing animals like cows and horses can make this essential vitamin on
their own so long as they’re getting adequate sunlight, but carnivores like
dogs and cats don’t have this capacity. Instead,
they must get it by eating prey that has produced their own vitamin D.
In civilized society, our cats and dogs get the vitamin in their animal
chow.
How important is the Big D anyway and what does it do? First of all – as most of us vaguely know – it plays an important role in bone health. However, medical scientists are beginning to appreciate many additional far ranging benefits of this vital nutrient. For example, Vitamin D also has beneficial effects on the immune system. Over 20 years ago researchers were struck by the higher colon cancer rates in the Northern states compared to the Sunbelt. As the data came together, insufficient vitamin D levels in the North appeared to provide the explanation. Vitamin D also appears to have a protective effect against prostate, breast, and ovarian cancers.
The immune augmenting effects of vitamin D go beyond discussions of cancer. It appears that this vitamin also aids in decreasing our risk of a host of auto-immune diseases—conditions where the body’s immune system literally attacks itself. Take, for example, the case of multiple sclerosis (MS). This potentially debilitating nervous system disorder occurs as the body destroys myelin, a nerve fiber insulating material. Scientist have now linked an increased risk of MS to insufficient blood levels of vitamin D. Type 1 diabetes, an autoimmune condition formerly called Juvenile Onset Diabetes, also shows a link to vitamin D levels. In Finland, where sunlight is a very scarce winter-time commodity, low vitamin D levels have been linked to the development of diabetes in infants.
Even when it comes to bone health, most Americans fail to recognize the scope of symptoms that can be linked to vitamin D. For example vitamin D deficiency contributes to more than osteoporosis. Lack of adequate amounts of this vitamin lie at the root of osteomalacia, a condition which can cause bone pain coupled with muscle aches and weakness. These symptoms may be mistaken for fibromyalgia. Consequently, anyone with a fibromyalgia diagnosis should be carefully evaluated for vitamin D adequacy.
However, sunshine provides more than vitamin D. It naturally lifts our mood, in part by boosting levels of melatonin, a hormone that helps to support restorative sleep. This is why, with shorter less sun-filled winter days, individuals face an increased risk of the depressive syndrome known as Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD). Ultraviolet light exposure as provided by the sun has also been documented to lower blood pressure. This effect may be partially mediated by vitamin D, but it may also involve sunshine-induced relaxation.
Further adding to the importance of sunshine is its primacy among vitamin D sources. Clearly, humans appear designed to get this vitamin from the sun rather than from food. Vitamin D is thus unlike every other vitamin in that we are not dependent on a dietary source. However, if you live in the Northern half of the United States, you likely face a vitamin D dearth in the winter months. Getting outside a lot in those months is unlikely to boost your vitamin D levels sufficiently because during those shorter days, the sun’s ultraviolet rays are not intense enough to boost vitamin D production by your skin. Surprisingly, even in the summer, more and more Americans are coming up D-deficient. 42% of a representative sample of African American women, aged 15-49 years old, were recently reported to be vitamin D deficient. (25) Among healthy male and female Bostonians between 18–29 years old, 36% lacked adequate amounts of vitamin D. (26)
The culprit? A lack of time spent outdoors—due to increased hours spent in sedentary pursuits like computer gaming and TV viewing. Other factors further compromise vitamin D production: more darkly pigmented individuals, older Americans, and the obese all have a harder time making vitamin D. However, perhaps our greatest problem lies with our national preoccupation with skin cancer prevention. Slap some sunscreen on (even if it is a low SPF like 8) and you’ll make virtually no vitamin D. One alternative is to get exposed to some rays before using sun protective agents. After 15-20 minutes, then go ahead and apply your sunscreen.
There are relatively few dietary sources of vitamin D. If you regularly take fish oil or eat fatty fish (like salmon) three to four times weekly, you may already be eating enough vitamin D. However, few Americans fall into this category. Fortunately, milk is routinely supplemented with D. Orange juice can also be fortified with this vitamin. Other than convenience, there is no significant advantage to getting your vitamin D in milk or juice compared to a vitamin D pill. Vitamin D expert Michael Holick, M.D. of Boston University is a strong proponent of sun exposure to maximize levels of this critical vitamin. However, in areas far from the equator, he encourages 800 – 1000 I.U. of vitamin D daily during the winter months.
When it comes to the importance of vitamin D, it is fortunate that most of our pets can’t read the latest scientific reports. If they did, they would be liable to fall into the trap that we humans often stumble into. Namely, if a little is good, more must be better. In the case of Vitamin D, this logic can be dangerous and even fatal. In high doses, vitamin D is extremely toxic—both to humans as well as to animals. Ensure that your pets get adequate sunshine or provide a ready source of vitamin D in species that can’t make their own. (Fortunately, dog and cat foods are fortified with this necessary nutrient.) Veterinarians report particular problems with overzealous pet owners overdosing their birds and reptiles on this vitamin. Excessive does can result in calcification of these creatures’ kidneys and stomach. And we’re not talking about massive overdoses—three to four times their actual need will often put them into a death spiral.
Once
again we can learn from our animals how important sunshine is to the human
organism, and most of us would do well to imitate their preference for outdoor
activity. In the beginning of the
world, God said, “Let there be light” (Genesis 1:3,16), and He provided the
sun as our main source for the healing rays. Sunshine tends to boost your mood
as well as your vitamin D levels. If
skin cancer concerns loom large in your mind, opt for Vitamin D 800 -1000 I.U.
daily. Whether from the blazing orb
in the sky, a pill, or through fortified food, make sure you get the benefits
your body needs.
Pull
back the shades also.
Sunlight
may fade your couch, but it could
save your life.
Chapter
Ten
Taking Counsel from Cats
I
have studied many philosophers and many cats.
The
wisdom of cats is infinitely superior.
--
Hippolyte Taine (1828 – 1898)
Outside
of choosing whether or not to smoke, your eating habits are the single most
powerful lifestyle influence affecting your quality of life and longevity.
Diet is not only about what you eat—it also includes the matter of how we eat.
When
it comes to eating, our two dogs, Bruno and Tuxie, are as different as night and
day. Bruno, a trim German Shepherd
is a gregarious 5-year old. By now
you’ve probably gathered his highest priority is to be with whatever
two-legged family member is present. For
Bruno, eating is only a necessary task. Tuxie,
our Labrador Retriever-Great Pyrenees mix, is several years Bruno’s senior.
She once seemed to share Bruno’s pragmatic outlook on food.
However, part of the deal when we acquired her from the animal shelter
was that we would have her neutered. Ever
since that fateful surgery, Tuxie’s greatest object in life has been to eat.
More than once she managed to get into a cache of dog food.
In her record gourmand accomplishment, she put away an estimated 15
pounds of dog food in a mere two hours. We found her looking like she was ready
to deliver a litter –but totally content.
The
only way to feed Bruno is to make sure there is no chance for Tuxie to access
his food. Bruno will take his time,
reveling in the human companionship. On
the other hand, when food is placed in Tuxie’s dish, it will stay there for
only a matter of seconds. She
virtually inhales her entire meal.
Bruno
and Tuxie pay eloquent testimony to two eating styles popular among humans.
Like Bruno, we are endowed early in life with a distaste for overeating.
Just try to get a new born to overeat.
It’s impossible. She will
spit out her food; he will turn his head away; baby is done and that’s all
there is to it.
However,
most of us learn to be like Tuxie. We
gobble our food down—looking for more sensory enjoyment even if we don’t
need the nutrition. It’s hard to
hear a doctor tell us that we need to lose weight.
Even less comforting is realizing that your “friends” are speaking
behind your back about your bulging girth.
Gazing at Tuxie’s eating habits confronts us with reality and the
probing question: Am I really that
fixated on food?
On
the other hand our two cats, Gracie and Buttons, are models when it comes to
standing above the level of peer influences.
These two newer additions to our menagerie came with the promise of
keeping down the rodent population in our barn. There was no question regarding our motivation – at least
partly – as to why we adopted them into the family.
However, knowing cats, do you think either one of them obediently yielded
to our expectations in catching mice or other rodents?
Day
by day they play out their hunting preferences. They say in effect, “Birds?
Of course.” “Insects?
Why not?” “But mice?
You’ve got to be kidding!” Granted,
we probably made mistakes early on by making our intentions too apparent to this
traditionally independent species. It
was probably unwise to bring both Gracie and Buttons face to face with field
mice that we’d occasionally corner after lifting a log or stirring up a pile
of brush. Making our aspirations
for our cats so overt no doubt put our felines in an unenviable position. As much as they display affection for us, they couldn’t
damage their reputation of highly self-willed, spirited creatures and still
acquiesce to our wishes.
However,
our two cats—and the feline species in genera—are enviable role models when
it comes to diet. We have been so
habituated to eating for social reasons that we often allow the choices of those
around us to sabotage our best intentions. We eat when we’re not hungry.
We eat food that aggravates our diabetes or high blood pressure or
cholesterol problems. We even make
dietary decisions that perpetuate that on-going battle with our weight.
Why do we do it? Partly because we have not listened carefully enough to our
cats. Cats rise above their peer
influences. It doesn’t matter if
the head of the household will be offended because they didn’t eat what was on
the menu. They chart their own
course, stick with it, and do what they know to be right for them no matter what
we humans dictate.
We
should all take counsel from cats. By
this I mean that we should eat what we decide is best for us—on our
terms. Not that we won’t care for
the feelings of others, nor that we won’t enjoy the company of friends and
family. Yet at the same time, while maintaining sensitivity to the feelings of
those around us and encouraging social interaction, at the same time we must
chart our own undeviating dietary course.
St.
Louis University physicians John E. Morley and David
Thomas sent out a stunning press release in March 2002.
In it, they pinpointed an often unrecognized malady that insidiously
kills—or contributes to the death of—literally millions of older Americans.
The culprit? Loss of appetite.
As the
girth of Americans continues to swell, losing one’s appetite may sound more
fortuitous than dangerous. However,
appetite loss—particular in older adults—may be the beginning of a spiral
that ends in the grave. Malnutrition
depresses the body’s immune system and puts an individual at high risk of
succumbing to infectious illness. Although
deliberately shedding unwanted pounds can be desirable if it occurs through a
healthier diet or more exercise, inadvertent weight loss can be a veritable
death sentence.
It’s
no exaggeration to speak of millions being affected.
Consider a recent study from the University of Guelph in Canada.(27)
There, researchers Keller and McKenzie attempted to uncover nutritional risk
factors in a sample of community-living seniors. They were looking for eating patterns that put individuals at
risk for health problems down the road. Keller
and McKenzie found what they were looking for, documenting patterns of
significant nutritional risk in 68.7% of those evaluated.
Even more startling, 44.4% were at high nutritional risk.
Poor appetite was among the leading factors contributing to elevated risk
of future problems. Other key
factors included poor food intake and difficulties chewing, cooking, or shopping
for food.
How
can someone know if appetite is precariously ebbing away?
On behalf of the Council for Nutritional Clinical Strategies in Long-Term
Care, Drs. Morley and Thomas unveiled a tool designed to spot danger signals of
a poor appetite. Their eight
question multiple choice survey really centers around six different warning
signs of a dangerously failing desire for food. The following six questions get at these issues more simply
than the Council’s survey—providing you with some framework to evaluate the
key issues. Answer these questions
yourself, then share them with any older adults you know.
The more questions to which you answer “yes”, the more likely your
appetite is dangerously eroding, exposing you to potential
adverse health effects:
1.
Is real hunger unusual for you—even at meal times?
2.
Do you often feel full after eating relatively little?
3.
Does food taste significantly worse now than it did earlier in your life?
4.
Is it common for you to get nauseated when you eat?
5.
Have you inadvertently decreased the number of times you eat in a day?
6.
Do you frequently feel sad or depressed?
How
did you score? Realize that
answering “yes” to even one question is a warning sign.
Therefore, if you haven’t already done so, bring any positive responses
to the attention of a health professional.
That’s something best done sooner than later. Many of the symptoms
reflected by those six simple questions can indicate an underlying depression.
Prompt treatment can often help you make a rapid recovery.
However, failing appetite can be a sign of other problems as well.
A good diagnosis goes a long way toward the proper therapy.
In my
experience, I find that many individuals shy away from accurate diagnosis
because they fear the worse. Others
avoid medical evaluation due to misperceptions about what treatments may be
recommended. Avoiding a thorough
check up for potentially dangerous symptoms is never a wise course.
You may not want another drug added to your already-too-long list of
pills. But a prescription may not
be awaiting you. Even if it was,
I’ve never met a doctor yet who stopped at a patient’s house twice daily and
forcibly crammed medications down his or her throat.
The message is: you are in charge of your health. Your doctor can’t make you do anything you really don’t
want to do. So find out why your
appetite is failing. And be aware
the solution may be more pleasant than you imagined.
This
is where pets come front and center into our dialogue.
The really good news about appetite problems is that these beloved
animals may actually hold the key to turning your situation around.
(But before you diagnose yourself as just needing a little more animal
therapy—make sure a health professional also concurs with your assessment.)
How
is it that the key to your appetite problems may be wagging its tail under you
table or purring on your lap at this very moment? In the DeRose household, our pets—particularly our
dogs—have taught us some principles of appetite maintenance. Spending time with some of your animals will likely convince
you of the same.
I
remember one of the fringe benefits of marrying my wife, Sonja.
In addition to all her good qualities, I got to share more intimately in
the life of Jacer, her German Shepherd. Jacer
was a tremendous dog – the standard by which all our other dogs have
been compared. Yet that noble German Shepherd always made it clear that
eating was a social time. He
politely but unmistakably indicated that it was our responsibility to stay with
him while he ate. This powerful
lesson is one that is well for single Americans to take to heart.
Especially in our latter years when we may outlive many life companions
and friends, our pets remind us that eating is a social time.
You pets may supply some of that social need.
They may also inspire you to prioritize contact with other humans when it
comes to meal times. Either way,
you’re likely to find an increase in appetite by getting out of the rut of
eating alone.
Scientists
have now “proven” what Jacer and his relatives have known for centuries:
when someone eats with you, you tend to eat more.
If you are taking food to an older individual—whether as part of a
structured program or just out of concern—don’t just leave the food and run.
Stick around. If you could
measure the results, odds are that the individual will eat much more with you
there.
There
is another way in which animals can help to address the problem of waning hunger
sensations that tend to plague our later years.
They can remind us about the need for variety.
I’ve already pointed out that our current German shepherd, Bruno, is a
much more finicky eater than Tuxie. Where
Tuxie will gladly accept just about anything off our table, Bruno isn’t
typically enamored with our preferred vegetarian fare.
He clearly desires “real” dog food.
But he too, lets us know that he’s not just going to polish off one of
those 50-pound bags before we need to open another one.
He wants a fairly regular rotation of his menu if we expect him to eat
well.
Variety
is another key part of the formula for better eating later in life.
Don’t make a large dish and then expect to eat some of it each night as
you dine alone in quiet desperation. Have
something different every day. This
will also go along way to maintaining or improving your appetite
Right
eating habits are important. However,
it goes without saying that what we eat also has a powerful bearing on our
health. Diet books are always big
sellers, and depending on the era and who you interview, you’ll likely come up
with very different answers as to optimal food choices.
Over the course of my twenty years as a physician, I’ve seen diet gurus
come and go. I’ve listened to the
latest theories, only to find them fall out of vogue.
However one thing has been a constant, if we would eat more like our
pets, we would have better health.
Some
may immediately take this as strong advocacy for the Atkins Diet and other
“low carb” eating styles. Yes,
that would be a reasonable conclusion if we were like our dog or our cat.
However, it would not be a safe deduction if you’re comparing yourself
to a horse or a goat.
The
bottom line is that left to their own devices, animal eat in a way that is most
consistent with their physiology. Some
years ago, one of America’s most prolific research cardiologists, Dr. William
Roberts looked at this very question.
He studied the tooth structure of humans—he noticed it was best suited
to grind and chew things like nuts, seeds, grains, fruits and vegetables.
Our teeth were not well equipped to tear flesh.
Roberts made similar observations with respect to the length of our
digestive tract (long like a plant eater, as opposed to short like a carnivore)
and our hands (lacking claws or other sharp structures as found in flesh eaters)
as well as other aspects of human anatomy and physiology.
He came to the conclusion: “humans
are not carnivores.” (28)
Therefore,
if we were to really listen to the example of our animal friends we would be at
least semi-vegetarians—if not eschewing all forms of flesh.
Granted, even mentioning the word “vegetarian” in a book dealing with
pets is not likely to evoke neutral emotions.
You may relate intimately to militant vegetarians—or you may simply
have personally chosen to forgo flesh for ethical or humane reasons.
On the other hand, you may become livid when you sense that activists are
bent on depriving us of some of the very national foods that we were raised on.
After all, what would a 4th of July barbecue be without hot
dogs and burgers; Thanksgiving without turkey or New Year’s without ham?
However,
many find that as they get closer to their pets, it becomes harder to think
about eating their cousins. Just
ask any farm kid, it’s typically pretty tough to eat an animal that you’ve
bonded to as a pet.
I
haven’t even mentioned the health benefits of eating more fruits and
vegetables. But then your mother
and both your grandmothers likely told you as much. Suffice it to say that medical research continues to confirm
the health wisdom of loading up on more fruits, vegetables, nuts, seeds, and
grains. Make sure the latter
category features the “whole grains” like whole wheat, unrefined brown rice,
or rolled oats. The whole grains
along with the other plant products provide you with a liberal supply of fiber,
and a powerful complement of phytochemicals (plant nutrients). This blend is calculated to lower your cholesterol, decrease
your risk of cancer, improve or prevent your diabetes, and help you shed
unwanted pounds.
This
all should come as no surprise. When
mom, and grandma and your pets all agree, how could science say otherwise?
Chapter Eleven
He
behaved throughout with decent fortitude, equanimity and self-possession. (29)
-Charles Dickens, describing the fatal
illness of his pet raven, “Grip”
Rita
could never quite figure out her mother, Geraldine. At 80 years old Geraldine was in good health, but it had
become impossible to get her to go on any extended trips. Leaving her home for any length of time was virtually out of
the question. The issue always
centered around care for Midnight, her Siamese cat.
“What’s the big deal,” thought Rita.
There were other family members who lived just a few blocks away—as
well as neighbors residing even closer—any one of whom would be happy to look
out for Midnight. After all, it
didn’t require much effort to care for a cat that freely roamed the country
environs around Geraldine’s house all day.
Putting food in her bowl once a day was all that was needed to care for
the cat (the creek beside the house obviated any concerns for dehydration).
When Rita pointed out the ease of the cat-care, all her mother would say
is, “I don’t want to be a burden on any of those overworked people.”
After
many frustrating conversations, it finally dawned on Rita.
Her good natured and compassionate mother was not primarily concerned
about unduly burdening her neighbors or other family members.
This was just an excuse (consciously or subconsciously formulated) that
seemed less selfish than the real reason for her hesitancy to travel:
her mother couldn’t stand being apart from her beloved pet.
Once Rita recognized the real dynamics, she immediately came up with a
solution: Midnight would travel
with them as part of the family. Geraldine
never had any more difficulty when it came to taking long trips.
Although
we may be tempted to feel self-conscious about our affection for our pets, we
shouldn’t. There’s nothing
wrong with these tender ties – provided we don’t allow undue affection for
our pets to undermine important human relationships.
As we saw in a previous chapter, many doctors are finding that the social
bond that exists between a pet and her human companion is a powerfully positive,
health-giving force.
But
animals provide more than companionship, blood-pressure benefits, or dietary
insights. They are also powerful
mentors when it comes to learning about the social and spiritual dimensions of
life. This is an immense topic, but
five examples of their teaching skills seem especially apropos:
1.
Selfless Service
Turning on lights and opening doors are just a few of the tasks that Liberty, a Golden Retriever, performs for her wheel-chair bound companion, Mavis. Mavis’s service dog has truly provided her with more than companionship. The single 57-year old now can get through a day with considerably greater ease. Liberty has made her Multiple Sclerosis limitations much less daunting.
What
motivates Liberty and other service dogs? It
is simply the satisfaction of a job well done and the appreciation that comes
from the recipients of their kindness. What
a noble example for us humans to follow!
Mark
Finley of Television’s It Is Written
tells the story of how a man wanted to take a long trip with his dog.
In order to prepare for his journey he inquired in advance as to whether
his pet would be welcome at various establishments.
One hotel manager wrote him a letter that went something like this:
“I
have never had a dog stay in my hotel…
that
stole any of my towels,
pilfered
my sheets,
walked
off with the pictures, or
caused
a drunken disturbance…
By
all means bring your dog, and if he recommends you, you can stay too.”
Our
companion animals can be selfless servants in other ways as well.
Because of their size, habits of life or other physiologic or behavioral
factors, our pets often place themselves in harm’s way without even realizing
it. Such is the case when it comes to poisoning.
The annals of medical history record examples of how pets contributed to
the health of their human companions by serving as “sentinels” of toxic
problems. For example, on a number
of occasions lead poisoning has been identified in children as a result of first
diagnosing pets with the condition. (30) This an important contribution.
Lead poisoning often goes undetected in children.
It can cause no symptoms yet have significant and lasting adverse mental
health effects. Therefore, pets
sometimes are the heralds of serious problems in a home—not by their barks or
their whimpers, but rather by providing early evidence of exposure in their own
bodies which can be detected by the skilled analysis of the family veterinarian.
2. Tolerance.
Even when our pets behave poorly, our affection for them often inspires us to find solutions rather than abandoning them. Veterinary experts know that animal behavior problems often have to do with less-than-ideal situations in the physical environments in which they live. Dr. Shirley Seaman, of Edinburgh University’s Royal School of Veterinary Studies has gone on record: "The behavior of companion animals is affected by the environment in which they are kept…this can lead to the development of behavioral problems." (31)
These are extremely important issues. When we understand that there are reasons for our pets bad behaviors we can constructively address them. In fact, most pet owners start with the premise that their pet is basically good—and just has some bad characteristics that can be addressed by better training or the improvement of circumstances.
If we could carry this lesson over into our human relations this would go a long way in helping us to be more compassionate towards those who exhibit behavioral problems. The problems we see in animals – followed by solutions that work – teach us to view human beings with kindness and to see them as individuals who more often than not would like to improve, if only their circumstances were changed. This knowledge motivates us to seek to better understand their difficulties, address the causes of their mistakes, and then to improve their situations as an aid to promoting healthy long-term relationships. In other words, if you make a dog’s life easier, he’ll be happier and nicer to live with. It’s the same with humans.
3.
A Reason For Living
Denise
Wood, a lecturer at the University of South Australia – and a real nature
lover – found her dream house several years ago.
Although a one-hour commute from her job, the five-acre farm provided
both privacy and a place to live with her diverse assortment of pets that
include alpacas, kangaroos, and wallabies.
The farm, an old piece of mining property that was worked back in the
late 1800’s, also gave Denise a place to care for both her regular pets and
other animal “cast aways.”
One
summer day, Denise had just finished caring for her latest charge, an infant
possum whose mother had recently been struck and killed by a car.
She then went out to attend to her alpacas.
In the course of her duties, she noticed a small hole.
Wondering if a burrowing rodent had made it, she went over to explore.
However, when Denise got within several feet of the hole, the ground gave
way. She went plunging down a 100
foot mine shaft and landed in cold
dingy water. Miraculously she
survived not only the fall, but also nearly 48 hours—much of it treading
water—in the cold dark pit.
It
seemed that two things kept her going through that ordeal:
1. Her faith in a God who heard her prayers and, 2. A sense of purpose
because she knew that many of her above-ground
pets were dependent on her for survival.
In her water-filled tomb she prayed:
“Lord, I know you gave me these animals to look after.
Please save me so I can save them!” (32)
Yes,
relationships with animals not only bring us joy and happiness – emotions
which can improve our health, (33)(34) but – the knowledge that our animals
are dependant on us also increases our reasons for living. Most animals
themselves are not like bumps on a log, but are intensely purposeful creatures.
As we develop friendships with them, they add additional purpose to our own
lives as well.
5. Rest
and Contentment.
We’ve
all heard the expression: “It’s a dog’s life.”
What is a dog’s life really like?
One of the things we seem to envy in our animals is their ability to take
guiltless rest. They can lie down
anytime day or night and without the smallest pangs of conscience.
Maybe
it’s time we listen to them. Truly,
it doesn’t take much to make your dog or cat happy. Do their carefree
lifestyles have something to teach us about cultivating contentment with the
simple pleasures of life and about taking time to do that which is most
important? I think so.
There
was a time in my life where to admit my need for sleep seemed less than manly.
I was more macho if I could perform well on fewer hours of sleep.
When much younger and extremely foolish, I even tried to convince myself
that need for sleep was only a figment of my imagination.
Yes,
I could accomplish a lot on little sleep, but my higher powers of intellect
suffered. My creativity was not
optimal. And I would find myself
dozing if I took time for meditation, prayer, or reflection. In our overachieving age, we often short ourselves on sleep
and pay for it in increased auto accidents, higher rates of heart attacks, and
shorter tempers.
Animals teach us the profound message of rest in what we have. Contentment in the ways things are. Looked at from another perspective, our companion animals teach us the value of living in the Present. They tell us to slow down and to focus on relationships and the things that make live worth living.
In
October 2000, Reader’s Digest featured an article called “The
Tomorrow Trap” that likely touched an answering chord with thousands of
Americans. Two of those individuals
wrote in and had their letters published in the December 2000 issue. (p. 14)
Marie
Lieurance of Zillah, Washington described a sobering incident in her work at a
small hospital. She recounted how
the tragedy of holding a dying three-year old in her arms provided a wake up
call for her—and her family—to live in the present: simply because tomorrow
never comes for some of us.
A
health crisis helped Diane Schoelles or Moreno Valley, California step off a
whirlwind schedule that included wife, mother, student, and financial analyst at
a prestigious company. It was only
after being “forced” by her health to “retire” at age 42 that she could
say: “My children and husband are
happy, and my attitude is changing toward living [in] the here and now—rather
than the then and maybe.
Yes,
animals teach us to live in the present. We
can live whirlwind lives, but there is no way to give a dog a 10 second walk or
to groom a horse in 22 seconds. Animals
often cause us to slow down—for the many of us who do not know how to do so,
they are a boon, indeed.
A Lesson from the Peacock
or
a personal to a general one can speak of happiness only as the blind do of
colors.
Olympia
Brown, 1835-1926, American
Women's Suffrage Leader
"Mommy, mommy, the peacock
is in our yard and I think its hurt!" blurted 12-year old Heather Jones as
she came rushing into the house.
In most households that would
have sounded like a shocking declaration. However, Alice Jones and her children had noticed the stray
peacock wandering on their rural Arkansas property over the last three weeks.
So although her child's words prompted concerns for the peacock's
welfare, the presence of the bird was no surprise.
When Alice reached the bird it
was obvious that Heather's assessment was correct. The peacock was hopping on one leg while his second leg
dangled uselessly. Despite his
obvious injury, the bird was not at all interested in the attempts of a mother
and daughter to catch him (in preparation for a friendly medical evaluation, of
course). The peacock was still well
able to fly so with several flaps of his wings he was safely positioned in a
large oak tree 20 or 30 feet from the ground.
At this point Heather summoned
her nine-year-old brother Craig. Craig
took a long stick and climbed up a cedar tree beside the peacock’s temporary
oak retreat. Using the stick to
gently nudge the bird, Craig enticed the peacock to fly back to the ground.
Instantly, mother and sister again gave chase.
Mr. Peacock then made a grave mistake.
He tried to hide under some bushes.
Alice and her children surrounded the bird. With the assistance of an old piece of heavy material, Alice
finally caught the majestic creature.
Heather and Craig were
delighted with their new pet. However
Mr. Peacock was clearly unenthusiastic with his new home.
He was cooped up in a large dog cage which did not seem – to him at
least – to be the best medicine for his ailments. There was little room to
move and he seemed unable to fathom the benefits. Obviously, Mr. Peacock clearly
longed to be outside enjoining God's nature. Yet unknown to him, his captivity
was designed for his own benefit. For
a while he was kept from enjoying the fresh air and open sky, but in time, after
his leg healed, he would ultimately once again be able to savor the freedom
granted by his Creator.
This true story reminds me
about the importance of sacrificing things now for future benefits.
Sometimes we need to give up things we want to do and even experience
what we consider to be a confinement of our freedom – but if we are
sacrificing for God, for the good of others, or for our own higher good, the
results will pay off in the long run. Someday, according to the Good Book, there
will indeed come once again a heaven on earth, which will include unparalleled
enjoyment for all of God’s creatures – both human and animal – throughout
the ceaseless ages of eternity. We read of …
Wolves
and sheep will live together in peace,
and
leopards will lie down with young goats.
Calves
and lion cubs will feed together,
and
little children will take care of them.
Cows
and bears will eat together,
and
their calves and cubs will lie down in peace.
Lions
will eat straw as cattle do.
Even
a baby will not be harmed
if
it plays near a poisonous snake.
On
Zion, God’s sacred hill,
there
will be nothing harmful or evil.
The
land will be as full of knowledge
of
the Lord as the seas are full of
water.
(Adapted
from Isaiah 11:6-9)
For some human beings, in spite
of the many benefits available from animal companions, owning a pet may not be
in a person’s best interest. In a
world marred by sin, even the presence of friendly animals does not always bring
comfort. For those with compromised
immune systems, some pets—especially birds and reptiles—may not be in
one’s best interest, and sometimes can even be particularly dangerous.
Severe allergies can also keep even the most avid cat lover away from the
feline objects of his desire.
Sometimes, just like the
peacock that had to be restricted for its own good, we have to suffer the loss
of something good for the promise of something better. But don’t worry. That
“something better” will surely come to this suffering planet we call home
(see the next section of this book).
For those who have chosen to
appreciate the loving ways of their Creator, the sacrifice will be well worth
the price.
Section
3: Will My Pet Go to Heaven?
Short
Preface
Section
3 of Your Pet, Your Health, and the Afterlife is virtually a duplication
of a previously published book entitled, Will
My Pet Go to Heaven? First released in November of 2002, the response to
that book has been tremendous. Throughout 2003, I was interviewed about this
topic on many radio programs, including Billy Graham’s Decision Today network, Pet
Talk America, USA Radio, The Billy Cunningham Show, The Frankie Boyer Show, The
Johanna Fisher Show, The Liz Gunderson Show, The Doug Stephan Show, The Source
with Paul Anderson, and many others. Additional interviews have occurred
with Focus on the Family, Christian Reader magazine, Three Angels Broadcasting
Network, and the Central Coast Good News TV network (a TBN affiliate). As Will
My Pet Go to Heaven? continues to garner exposure and placement into more
and more bookstores, we often receive delightful emails and letters from pet
lovers nationwide who are delighted with its contents. In the next few pages,
you will read some of these letters.
It
is my hope and prayer that God will keep using this little work to inspire hope
and love in the hearts of those who appreciate both the Creator and His
creation.
Steve
Wohlberg
March
2004
Readers
Respond
Note:
Section 3 of this book is a duplication of a previously published book entitled,
Will My Pet Go to Heaven? by Steve Wohlberg. Here are some of the
responses from excited readers about that book:
Dear
Steve, You just cannot imagine what a gift of peace you have brought to my soul
and I just had to tell you how much I appreciate the fact that you wrote this
book. The precious pets I live with are my family. I may live alone (the only
human), but I am anything but alone, and with my pets around, I am never
lonely... May God bless you for the
joy you are sharing with other pet lovers. Sincerely, Loretta R. Young
Hi
Steve... it has been two months now since my little companion, Sarah, died.
All I can say about your book is AMEN! What wonderful insights you have
presented into the love God has for us... It
breaks my heart when I see or hear about people mistreating any animal but
especially the little friends that they have been entrusted with.
I loved all the side notes that you included and the different
quotations, including the ones about a horse… Thank you for going way beyond
the loss of a pet. May God bless you, your wife Kristin, and little
"Rerun" for the ministry you have shared.
Blessings, Pat
I
just finished reading Will My Pet Go To Heaven? and must say that it is
the best book on the subject I have ever read. I was truly thankful for
the Christian perspective. We
lost our Mollie on September 5, 1999, and I can truly sympathize with you and
your wife and know of your pain and grief. Rudi Ann joined our lives on
September 21, 2000. She is a Jack Russell Terrier/Rat Terrier mix.
She looks an awful lot like Jax and Rerun! I think that's another reason
why your book touched me so. Thank you so much for writing this book! God Bless!
Lori Whittenberger
Hi
Steve, My name is Kathrin. I just
wanted to write and let you know that I really enjoyed reading your book Will
My Pet Go to Heaven? A lady in
my church gave it to me for Christmas. I
was glad to read a book on the subject because I've always had questions about
that. I have LOTS of animals.
Right now one of our family cats is sitting here with me at the computer.
J
Anyways, I have had lots of animals die in the past, and I know how hard it is. Thanks for writing a book on this. God bless you,
Steve,
I bought your book for my daughter who has two Therapy Dogs…Isabella, a
Rhodesian Ridgeback, and Smokey, a mutt…Your study was very thorough and
certainly makes you think about it differently when you approach this topic with
an open mind. Thank you again and may God bless you and your wife. Mrs.
Marcia Niemiec (Ohio)
Dear
Steve, I just read your book in one sitting. I loved it! I have had dogs and
cats in my home all my life (I’m a 68-year old grandma now) so I’ve had to
say goodbye many times. You NEVER get used to it. Two of the many dogs I’ve
shared my home with were extra special (Cookie, my Boxer, and Chippy, my
mini-Poodle). Right now I have an eleven year old Toy Fox Terrier who is almost
identical to your Jax except bigger…This book was a wonderful thing you did
and it never would have happened without Jax. He served a tremendous purpose.
God used him to lead you to write a book that gives hope and comfort to soooo
many. Thank you, Donna Costa, Port St. Lucie, Florida
Dear
Steve, Little did we know when we bought your book and read it that in less than
2 weeks we would need the comfort it gives. [The story of Scruffy is told]. Your
book had proved invaluable to us during this time of
crisis and grief. I am going
to order more tomorrow. We want to
give one to each of the vets [that took care of Scruffy].
They suffered right along with us. We
believe that your book will be beneficial to them and will help them in
ministering to others when they loose a pet.
We are also going to give one to our neighbor's across the street. I know
that your book will be a blessing to them as well. Thank you for writing a
sensitive, biblical book about pets and heaven.
May the Lord richly bless you. My wife and our three rescued (all were
strays) canine children thank you as well. George T. Washburn, Th.D. Marion,
Alabama
Dear Mr. Wohlberg,
Thank you so much for your encouraging words and support regarding the recent
loss of my mix husky/German shepherd who was 14 years old. You will not
fully realize how your interest and care have helped. Because he was very
dear to me, sometimes it seems overwhelming to think that I will not see him
again in this life after the close relationship that we had. The patio remains
vacant now and deafly silent. However, I know that the Lord allows these things
to happen to us so that when it happens to others, we can offer the comfort and strength
that is needed to get others through. I have ordered three copies of your book
and have plans to share it with a close friend and my aunt who also lost her dog
last fall. Thanks so much again for your response and interest in my personal
loss. God bless. Peter Seheult
Dear
Steve, I watched your guest
appearance on 3ABN some weeks back when you were being
interviewed about your
soon-to-be-published book about pets and heaven… As a family practice
physician I have known a significant number of people who, because of life
experiences--often abuse or other trauma as a child, are quite cut off from
human relationships. Often these people are deeply attached to their pets, much
more than they are to any human. It seems significant that God has given
them a way to see His love which is outside their broken human
relationships. This is part of the group your book will reach. I am
very glad that you have written it. Seems to me it is a long time
coming… There are many who will be blessed.
Marcia Franklin
Steve...
I just bought my fourth copy of your book, Will My Pet Go to Heaven? Everyone
I give it to loves it. One friend is ordering several. Thanks so much on your
thoughts on pets. Elaine
When
I first got the book, I thought the photo on the back cover looked a lot like a
smooth coat Chihuahua. I have lost several to death, one was only 8 months old,
and your book really helped me deal with the loss. Liz Moore, Washington
You
were so brave to write about the tragic death of your little Jax. Many of us are
grateful that this inspired you to research the topic of pets in heaven. Joan
Fernish,
Spokane, WA.
Couldn't
put it down ... I'm anxious to share the book as a Christmas gift for my loved
ones. Robert Williams, LLT Productions
An
Angel Must Have Done It!
In
May of 2003, Steve Wohlberg received this amazing letter:
I
rarely do this type of thing but I need you to know what a blessing your book
has been to me and my nine year old daughter. It has been a horrible year. I
lost my job a year ago due to the ailing health of both me and my daughter. We
suspect sick home syndrome and toxic mold and yet have no money for testing. We
filed bankruptcy in November and still cannot stay on top of regular living
expenses. Our home is now in foreclosure.
We
tried to move into an apartment but were declined due to bankruptcy. The washing
machine broke over two months ago and we are unable to replace it. Time at the
Laundromat is very depressing with a child in tow after I have been a
professional in Corporate America all my life. I broke down last week and
finally filed for food stamps. I was humiliated. Where is my God? (I promise the
story gets better). My daughter left to go see her father in Missouri last week
and when I came home her dog MacTavish....little cairn terrier...had been sick
all over the carpet of the house we are desperately trying to sell to recoup
equity and recover from this year.
Irritated
at the call I get from the agent about the house being shown when the dog had an
"accident," I go to yell at my dog and find him lethargic and
shaking....I am sure you have read a million of these stories so I will get
straight to the point. Mac got worse and worse, what can I do? I have no money
for a vet but this is a family member. Finally I pray and decide to take him in.
The vet needed x-rays and tests and ultimately surgery as he appeared to have an
intestinal blockage. I can’t! I cried and cried but knew he was suffering.
They
put him to sleep and I agonized over what to tell my sweet daughter who has lost
so much already this year. This little guy sleeps with her every night even
swims in the pool with her and her friends! When I arrived at the airport my
stomach was hurting thinking about her pain. I went into a little shop to get a
soda and there next to the cooler sat your book "Will my pet be in
heaven?" My heart began to pound ...I picked it up and read the back...then
I saw the price. $10.00 is a lot of money to a person with no job but I decided
God put it there so I am BUYING it! I looked all over the store for another copy
and couldn’t find one...how odd. I went to the counter and put down my soda
and the book and the cashier said to me, "Oh, you can have that book
because someone just left it here this morning!"
I
stepped out of the store with tears running down my face. How can the God I have
been questioning and even swearing at many times this year be so merciful on
THIS issue as to place this book in my hands to comfort the one thing I have and
love so much, my little girl? Does He care that much about the little things?
Yes! He really does.
When
I arrived home I held my daughter and gave her the bad news. Oh how we both
cried! Then I told her the story about the book. I need to interject here that
Madison is very special as far as her spirituality. I was not walking with the
Lord when I had her and from the time she was very young she carried around a
tattered old black Bible and began talking about the Lord. Where did that come
from? I even had a friend poke fun one day asking where did I get this
"Pentecostal" child as I sat at the pool drinking my beer and my
four-year old asked her child if she knew Jesus and began to pray! (Humiliating
now as I think about it). Madison brought me and my husband to the Lord. We are
now a Christian family.
Anyway....After
I told her about the book I got it out of my purse and we began reading
together. Madison said to me with tears running down her face, "Mommy, It
was an Angel that left that book for us, wasn't it?" I said, "Yes
honey, It sure was".
So
I want to thank you for writing it and let you know how it has blessed a family
walking through the fire and trying to keep the faith. MacTavish is in our
hearts and it’s sad to see his bowl and toys. However, through his death has
come a strange peace that God used him to show me. I do care Kim, hang in there
and show your daughter that God does not promise us a life without loss or
sorrow but rather that He will be there while you muddle your way through.
May
God richly bless you and your family for following His direction to write a book
that An Angel from Heaven put in my hands at the hardest time in my life. Thank
you again.
Kimberley Childress Muench
Texas
Chapter 12:
Millions Do
Wonder
So far this book has focused upon
the benefits animals can bring to us in this life, but what about the afterlife?
Is it possible that the special friendships we’ve developed in this world
might continue “on the other side”? Believe it or not, millions of
animal-loving human beings have asked themselves at one time or another, Will my
pet go to heaven? I don’t think this is an exaggeration because, first of all,
this very question often pops into The Question Box during my Bible prophecy
seminars. Secondly, a Christian woman who regularly gives home Bible studies to
people on various topics told me once, “This is one of the most common
questions I get!”
Beyond
this, based on the numerous pre-press comments I’ve received from both friends
and strangers, I realize that many are extremely interested in my search for an
answer to this question. A tall redheaded woman once asked me, “When will your
pet book be finished? I know seven people who want to read it!” I talked to a
stranger at the Dallas airport in the line by the ticket counter; as she
clutched her own four-legged friend, she said earnestly, “I’ll buy it!”
Later
that same day a man sat down beside me as we waited for our rides from the
Oklahoma City airport. With time to kill, I had just booted up my computer
laptop to work on this manuscript. “I’m writing a book,” I commented, as
we began a friendly visit. “About what?” he asked with interest. I told him,
and before we parted, he said eagerly, “I’d like to read that book!” I
could go on and on. Truly, this subject strikes a common chord in many hearts.
The reason is simple: People really love their animals.
The
love for a horse is just as complicated as the love for another human being. . .
. If you have never loved a horse, you will never understand.
—Author
Unknown
During
this short life of ours it’s easy to become attached to one of God’s more
intelligent, non-human creatures, be it a dog, a cat, a bird, a horse, or some
other friendly companion. Dogs aren’t called “Man’s Best Friend” for
nothing. For those that have them, pets truly become part of the family. They
live, sleep, eat, play, cry, lick, cuddle, and prance around in and outside our
homes. People build them their own little houses, buy them special treats, put
funny clothes on them, take them on trips, check them into pet-friendly hotels,
reserve spaces for them on airlines, watch them give birth to babies, take them
to pet doctors when they’re sick, pay big money for pet insurance, agonize as
they go through major surgeries, and even include them in their wills and estate
planning.
Many
animals are quite smart, too. When they sense we’re hurt, they do their furry
best to bring comfort. In not a few cases–as we saw earlier in this
book–pets have both risked their lives or lost their lives in incredibly
heroic efforts to save their owners. Dramatic tales involving these
super-animals are often reported on the popular TV show, Miracle Pets, or on the
Animal Planet channel. Some of these pets have even been awarded medals of
honor.
Some
of my best leading men have been dogs and horses.
—Elizabeth Taylor
(b. 1932)
Not
surprisingly, when these almost-human companions breathe their last breaths,
their deaths can cause the deepest pain. Many grief-stricken owners bury their
animals under pet tombstones in pet cemeteries—cemeteries which are springing
up around the world and offer a full line of cremation and burial services.
After the heartbreaking funerals, animal graves are visited just like human
graves. Pet photos are cherished just like pictures of parents, children,
grandparents, brothers, and sisters. Many grieving humans turn to professional
counselors who offer a variety of pet bereavement resources and support groups.
And with the growth of twenty-first century techno-wizardry, more and more pet
owners are considering the possibility of cloning their departed pet.
What
should a parent say to a teary-eyed child who asks, after the family dog, cat,
or horse dies, “Will Rover, Snow Ball, or Black Beauty be in heaven?”
Answers like, “Of course, sweetheart,” or, “Rover went to doggie
heaven,” are typical. But let’s be serious. Are such responses simply
fairy-tale talk as unreal as Santa Claus? Or is it possible that a heartbroken
boy or girl (not to mention parent) may really see Rover, Snow Ball, or Black
Beauty again?
This
section of this book is not about fairy tales, fiction, or fantasies like E.T.,
Star Wars, Jurassic Park, Lion King, Shrek, or Lord of the Rings. Instead,
it’s about a heart-felt question, the Holy Bible, and the truth. Ever since I
first began my spiritual quest, God has become very real to me, and He has
proven His love many times. After studying the Bible for twenty-plus years,
I’m totally convinced it is a Heaven-inspired book. In the midst of life’s
most painful struggles, aches, and pains, its soul-penetrating words and
promises have brought real peace to my heart.
The
Bible reveals a loving God who originally created a perfect Garden of Eden for
both humans and animals. Without watering down reality, it describes the sin of
Adam and Eve, its deadly effect on both man and beast, and also God’s
wonderful plan to restore Planet Earth to its original condition. Thankfully, if
you peek at the final pages of the Bible, His love wins. A new earth is
described in which will dwell both perfected people and many furry friends. The
Good Book is very clear—both humans and animals will find a happy home in
God’s eternal kingdom. Read it for yourself:
For
behold, I create new heavens and a new earth; and the former shall not be
remembered or come to mind . . . The wolf and the lamb shall feed together, The
lion shall eat straw like the ox . . . They shall not hurt nor destroy in all My
holy mountain, Says the Lord. (Isaiah 65:17,25)
In
the following pages of this book I will address the very real question asked by
many aching hearts, “Will my pet go to heaven?” Yet from the get-go, just
for the record, I must admit that no one knows with total, absolute certainty,
except God Himself. So don’t expect me to be super-dogmatic (pun intended).
And if there’s a slight chance you are concerned about Steve Wohlberg drifting
off into some kind of pet-heresy, don’t worry, I won’t. I have been very
careful to maintain scriptural sanity, reasonableness, and common sense. I
promise you, there’s nothing extreme, weird, or bizarre in here.
In
addition—now don’t miss this point!—I didn’t write Will My Pet Go to
Heaven? to ignite any animal arguments or cat controversies. So please don’t
get into any dog fights over this topic; it’s not worth it. After you have
finished reading this book, I’m confident you’ll see it as an insightful,
friendly work; totally sensible, and 100% kosher. But more importantly, you’ll
be surprised to find that it reveals many unexpected, deep, and power-packed
truths that may even change your life.
I’m
about to open my heart to you, and to share an extremely traumatic and painful
journey my wife Kristin and I passed through after the loss of a tiny friend.
You will also learn my reasons—from the Bible no less—why we have come to
embrace the hope of someday seeing our dog’s happy face again. Above all, if
your own heart is open, you are going to discover many surprising and wonderful
insights into the character of our heavenly Friend. Here lies my ultimate reason
for writing this book. I hope to direct the hearts of animal-loving human beings
toward a truly magnificent and super-loving Creator who cares for us all.
I
hope to see you in His eternal kingdom.
Chapter 13
Our Dog’s Name Was Jax
I once had a sparrow alight upon my shoulder
for a moment, while I was hoeing in a village garden, and I felt that I was more
distinguished by that circumstance that I should have been by any epaulet I
could have worn.
Henry David Thoreau (1817–1862)
Will
Steve Wohlberg ever get married?” my closest friends had wondered for years.
Even my parents were starting to doubt. But finally, at the ripe age of 41, I
shocked them all by saying, “I do,” in the presence of hundreds of guests
inside a large church in California. Neither Kristin—formerly Kristin Renee
Demarest—nor I had ever been married before, and this was the very special
beginning of our new life together. The hit song, “You’ve Only Just
Begun,” applied perfectly. For years I had lived alone in tiny apartments, but
now it was time for a house. In January of 2000, a few days after the
much-feared Y2K glitch became the new millennium’s most famous fizzle, I
purchased a house for my new bride in a rather cozy residential section in Fort
Worth, Texas. This was our first home.
It
took me forty-one years to get married, and at this point I wasn’t quite ready
for any little Wohlbergs running around, so we decided to get a dog. Kristin
liked the idea of a little one, and soon we found Jax. His original owners, Mark
and Cortney Cooper, lived in the country just outside of Fort Worth. Because we
are all very close friends, my wife and I often visit their home, sometimes even
staying over on weekends. As a result of a certain circumstance, their little
Jax needed a new home. One day, as the four of us talked about how Kristin and I
were on the lookout for a pet, and they were searching for new owners, the fit
seemed perfect. So Jax became our first dog.
Dogs
come when they’re called; cats take a message and get back to you later.
—Mary
Bly
Officially,
Jax was a toy rat terrier, although we never cared much for the “rat” part.
These “toy” dogs are quite small, and even when fully grown, they’re not
normally more than 6–8 lbs. In addition, Jax was a runt, which means he was
the smallest of his litter. He was about two years old when we placed him in my
Ford Explorer to come home with us.
When
we took him in, Jax wasn’t sure if we were friends or foes. As a two-year old
in a strange house with new “parents,” he panicked just a bit. During our
first absence, we later discovered he had scratched up the windowsill near a
rear door in the sunroom trying to get out. Maybe he wasn’t sure if we were
coming back or not. He did this for three or four days each time we left. Yet
Jax was a highly intelligent little guy. Each time we went away, he soon
realized we did come back. After a few days of nurture, love, and a few
fanny-whacks, he quickly settled down and became almost the perfect dog.
The
sound of birds stops the noise in my mind.
—Carly Simon (b. 1945)
When
Kristin or I drove up to our house, Jax was often watching for us from the bay
window near the front door. As we walked in, he would dance around in circles in
the funniest way! He always wanted to be with us. In whatever room we entered,
he was there. One time Kristin went into her clothes closet just for a minute,
left, and closed the door. Later she walked back in and found Jax! Often as I
sat in front of my computer he would gently kick me with his paw as if to say,
“Please let me up!” At night we would pick him up and plop him on our bed.
As Kristin and I prayed together, we would often add, “. . . and Lord, thank
you also for our little Jax!” When the lights went out, our furry friend would
slip under the covers and snuggle up close.
During
the months that followed our attachment for Jax deepened. I often thought, What
a great dog! He was so cute-looking that when we took him out for walks on his
little leash to a small lake near our home, cars would sometimes slow down and
those inside would point as if to say, “Look at that little fella!” Everyone
liked him. He was friendly to our guests, played with their kids, and would
sometimes just race around the house in a big circle just because he was happy.
He had his favorite little rope which he would often grab and shake like a toy.
He became so much a part of our family that Kristin’s mother once called and
asked, “How’s my grand-dog?” Our home is a Christian home—which included
me, Kristin, Jesus, and of course, Jax.
Those
were wonderful days.
Chapter 14 –
The Day Tragedy Struck
Until one has loved an animal,
a part of one’s soul remains unawakened.
Anatole France (1844–1924)
Jax
lived with us for almost a year. One Saturday evening, on October 27, 2001, the
three of us drove out to visit with Mark, Cortney, and a group of other friends
at their home in the country. The event was called, “The Fall Festival.” It
was a night of pleasant interaction, bonfires, and hayrides. We stayed the
night, and, of course, Jax slept with us. On Sunday morning, our “little
boy” stuck to us like glue, not wanting to get left behind. In retrospect, I
wish we had left him. In any event, at about 2:00 p.m.,
we headed south towards our home in Fort Worth. As usual, Jax sat on Kristin’s
lap and licked the window for most of the trip. That was the last happy car ride
he would ever take.
I
parked the Explorer right in front of our home, along side the curb, facing
east. As I got out, Jax jumped out with me. As I walked to the back of the
vehicle to get our bags, Jax skipped around with me and then onto our grassy
lawn towards our front door. As I reached for our things, I glanced to my right
and saw him happily prancing around near my wife. At that very moment my heart
felt such joy. I remember this distinctly. I sure love that dog! were my exact
thoughts. As I turned back to the car to grab our bags, it was right then that
tragedy struck!
The
mother eagle teaches her little ones to fly by making their nest so
uncomfortable that they are forced to leave it and commit themselves to the
unknown world of air outside. And just so does our God to us. He stirs up our
comfortable nests, and pushes us over the edge of them, and we are forced to use
our wings to save ourselves from fatal falling. Read your trials in this light,
and see if you cannot begin to get a glimpse of their meaning. Your wings are
being developed.
—Hannah
Whithall Smith (1832–1911)
I’ll
never forget it, at least not in this life. I didn’t see it coming, but
another SUV rounded the corner in front of me and drove right past me on my left
side just a few feet from our car. “Jax!” Kristin screamed. I immediately
turned to my left and saw his little yapping form dart underneath the other car.
In a split-second of sheer horror I saw my tiny friend moving to bite the large
left rear tire from underneath. I think he was trying to protect me, but he was
no match for such a gigantic machine. As his tiny teeth bit the wheel near its
front, the force of its forward-circular-downward motion quickly rammed his
little head brutally into the ground. The car drove on, its driver never even
knowing what had happened. So there Jax lay, motionless on the hot concrete, as
if dead.
It
may sound unbelievable, but in my 42 years of living, I have hardly ever felt
such pain! “He’s gone!” I yelled to my wife. As the tears gushed out, I
had to look away. Just then another car came from the opposite direction right
toward Jax as he lay bleeding in the middle of the street. I bolted out in front
of the car, waved both of my arms frantically, and shouted wildly, “No! . . .
Please! . . . Stop!” The lady
stopped, and after saying, “I’m so, so sorry!” she drove carefully around
two sobbing “parents.”
It
was an absolute nightmare. In the midst of the street, I knelt in front of our
dog and moaned loudly, “Oh, Jax! Why did you do that? Why? Why? Why!” I was
devastated. Then all of a sudden Kristin cried out, “Steve, he’s moving!”
My first thought was, How horrible! Now I’ll have to kill him so he won’t
suffer. “Let’s take him to the Vet!” Kristin yelled. With a sense of utter
hopelessness, I complied. I ran into the house, grabbed a towel, rushed back
outside, and sadly wrapped Jax up. As we got into the car, I placed him on
Kristin’s lap. Then we raced away.
On
the way to the Vet, Jax started writhing and wiggling. “He’s in his death
struggle! You take him!” Kristin pleaded. So we switched places and she drove.
We went to two animal hospitals, but no one was there on a Sunday. Fortunately,
at our third try we found Dr. Morris and his wife doing some clean-up work at
the Southwestern Animal Clinic of Fort Worth. By this time Jax was really
squirming around, yet obviously without consciousness. The side of his face was
bleeding, his neck seemed out of whack, and his eyes showed no sign of seeing
anything. “I’ll need to run some tests,” Dr. Morris said after giving Jax
a sedative. “Go home. I’ll call you in a couple of hours.”
In
my heart, somewhere, a flicker of hope sprang up.
Chapter 15
From Sunday to Wednesday
My little dog—a heartbeat at my feet.
Edith Wharton (1862–1937)
The
phone rang at about 5:30 that same Sunday afternoon. I was almost afraid to
answer it. Is Jax dead? I wondered. “This is Dr. Morris. We’ve X-rayed his
entire body and he has no broken bones or fractures. But he definitely has a
concussion and his tiny brain is swollen. I’ll call you again at about 9:00
tonight. That’s it for now. Goodbye.”
When
I heard those words, everything in me knew it was time for prayer. “God, I
know he’s just a little dog, but, he’s all we have. We have grown to love
him so much! You made him, so please, please, save his life!” The next three
days were quite amazing. This may sound silly, but we started a prayer chain for
our little dog.
On
Monday morning I was back at the Vet’s and by this time I was starting to feel
like a father visiting his sick child in the hospital! Our little dog had
improved slightly, although not significantly. Mostly, he just lay on the table,
twitching and jerking. By Tuesday, though, he was calmer, and even able to hold
his head up. “He sometimes lifts his head and seems to look at me as I walk by
his cage,” the nurse remarked. “Once I even saw him twirling around on his
front legs, trying to walk.”
Come
on Jax, you can make it! I thought. Yet his eyes showed little responsiveness.
“We
hope that in a few days, after the swelling goes down in his brain, his mind
will come back,” she explained.
“Is
it OK if I say a prayer in here?”
An
animal’s eyes have the power to speak a great language.
—Martin
Buber (1878–1965)
“Sure,”
the lady replied. So, I drew close to his little ear and breathed out a few
words to God. Amazingly, immediately after my prayer, Jax lifted his little
head, turned, and looked right at me!
On
Tuesday he remained stable, with additional
slight improvements. After counseling with Dr. Morris, Kristin and I decided
that on Wednesday afternoon we would take him home in hopes that, through being
with us once again, he might muster his dwindling life forces and stage a super-Jax-comeback.
After all, he was a tough little dog! Because he wasn’t able to eat by
himself, his nurses were feeding him intravenously. “He’ll be fed, hydrated,
and ready when you come back tomorrow.”
Sadly,
I drove home.
There was a handsome male mockingbird that
sang his heart out every morning during the nesting season from the top of a
tall Norfolk pine tree. Last week the tree was cut down. The mockingbird and his
song are gone. I can’t put a dollar value on the tree nor on the mockingbird
nor on his song. But I know that I—and our whole neighborhood—have suffered
a loss. I wouldn’t know how to count it in dollars.
Jacquelyn Hiller
With
a tightening knot in my stomach, Kristin and I drove back to the clinic on
Wednesday afternoon at about 4:30. When the nurse brought Jax out and placed him
in my arms, not much had changed. He was still stable though, a bit thinner,
with one really glassy eye. Our plan was to take him home and then, after an
hour or so, to have Mark and Cortney join us. By surrounding Jax with quadruple
love, we all hoped he might revive.
We
pulled up in front of our house, the scene of the accident. Walking past the
exact spot where his head hit the ground three days earlier, I slowly and gently
carried Jax in my arms through the front door. “You’re back, Jax! Smell your
doggie food, isn’t it familiar? Here’s our bedroom, remember? Now we’re in
your favorite room—the sunroom! See that squirrel outside the window? You
always liked to bark at it. Jax, can you hear us? Jax! We love you!” No
response. It was heartbreaking.
I
laid him gently on a blanket on the floor near the center of the sunroom, and
soon Mark and Cortney arrived. Then something astonishing happened. As the four
of us gathered close around his tiny doggie body, Jax distinctly moaned once,
then again. “He knows we’re here,” Mark said. “He wants to respond, but
he can’t. He’s in pain.”
We
call them dumb animals, and so they are, for they cannot tell us how they feel,
but they do not suffer less because they have no words.
—Anna Sewell, Author of Black Beauty
(1820–1878)
Before
I left to go to our Wednesday night prayer meeting, we all knelt sadly beside
our dog’s motionless head. “Dear God, we love Jax so much, and we know You
love him, too. Please, if it’s Your will, heal him. If not, let him rest in
peace. Oh God, give us a sign, one way or another, so we’ll know what to do!
We place his frail life in Your hands. In Jesus’ name we pray, Amen.” The
reason I asked for a sign is because we didn’t know how long we should try to
maintain his existence if he didn’t recover. Jax hadn’t left us a will with
instructions on when to pull the plug. Then I left for church.
Leading
out in prayer meeting was very difficult that night. My heart ached, and my legs
were weak. I finally told the group what was happening, and the name “Jax”
was added to our prayer list. After my closing remarks a lady said to me, “I
know of a German Shepherd who was hit on the head by an on-coming train. He was
knocked out for weeks, but he recovered! Don’t give up hope!” I hadn’t,
and I was soon heading back to Kristin, Mark, and Cortney.
When
I walked into our house I discovered they had moved Jax out of the sunroom into
the living room. “His legs were getting cold,” Kristin said quietly. It was
about 9:00 p.m. We all sat around
the living room and talked for a while. Then I went over to Jax and felt his
legs. “He’s getting colder,” I said softly as I grabbed a few more
blankets. His breathing also seemed quieter. Something was happening, I could
feel it. His little body was closing down. “I think he’s dying,” I
whispered.
Hear
and bless Thy beasts and singing birds, and guard with tenderness, small things
that have no words.
—Author
Unknown
The
Nightly News came on at 10:00 p.m.
Terrorism and Anthrax were the top stories. Then the usual stock market report.
I don’t remember if the NASDAQ went up or down. After that, some local news.
It was Halloween evening, and the reports were positive. All was quiet, with no
major events in Fort Worth. A few kids had come by and knocked on our door, but
we were hardly in the mood to even answer. Kristin had planned to give out
little boxes of raisins that night, but she forgot to buy them at a market down
the street.
When
the Nightly News was over, at about 10:30 p.m.,
I rose from the couch and walked over to Jax. He was laying by the fireplace,
completely still. His eyes were still open. I pulled off the blankets, and
slowly reached for his fast-cooling body. Nothing. No movement at all. I shook
him slightly. Still nothing. Mark moved over and felt near his heart. “He’s
dead.” I then picked Jax up and held his face close to mine. I even lit a
match and held it near his little mouth. No flicker. “Yes. He’s gone.” We
cried, and accepted this as God’s will. Then I kissed my tiny friend for the
last time.
As
I look back on the events of that night, it all seems so amazing. Jax had been
stable for three days. When we brought him home, his distinct moan told us he
knew we were there. It was as if he wanted so badly to say, “Yes! I hear you!
I love you, too! I’m trying to respond, but I can’t!” It was like he was
trapped inside a broken brain. We had prayed, and even asked for a sign, then we
trusted our “little boy” to our Father’s heart.
The
mystery of love is greater than the mystery of death.
—Author
Unknown
In
retrospect, I really think Jax made a decision to die. Maybe this was the only
way he could respond to us. He was finally home in our house, away from the
strange clinic, and he knew it. The four human beings who loved him the most
were there by his side. After our prayer, within a very short time, his body
shut down, and that was it. We wrapped his small lifeless form in a blanket, put
it in a box, and placed it in our cold garage.
Mark
and Cortney decided to stay the night. In the morning I sadly placed the box in
their pickup truck, and they took him out to their country property to bury him.
That’s where Jax grew up. His tiny grave is still there today.
I was gratified to be able to answer
promptly.
I said, “I don’t know.”
Mark
Twain (1835–1910)
The
next day after Jax died, I sadly sat down at my Hewlett-Packard desktop computer
to send out some e-mail to a few friends who I knew had been praying for our
dog. After opening up Microsoft Outlook, I brought up the first letter. With
great difficulty I typed into the subject line, J A X
I S D E A D. It was awful.
At this point, I didn’t have the slightest thought about ever seeing him
again, and certainly not about writing this book! Yes, people had asked me
before, “Steve, do you think our pets might be in heaven?” but I hadn’t
taken the question very seriously. After sending the first e-mail, I did the
usual copy-and-paste thing. One by one, I clicked “send.”
Within
a short time, a good friend from Canada responded with a rather unexpected note.
He basically said, “After Jesus Christ comes, you’ll see Jax again in a new
doggie body!” What a nice thought, I mused. But still, I didn’t take it
seriously. Why should I? The central focus of the Bible is God, people, and
human salvation, not dogs and cats, right?
Then
a second friend from Alaska who had been praying for Jax e-mailed me back. This
young man has a wife, two children, and two cats. Unknown to me, he was a great
animal lover. In an attempt to give comfort, he not only expressed his personal
hope that we might someday see our pets again, but then he gave this reason: He
said our loving God just might bring them back to life again as a gift for those
who are saved. Somehow, the five little words—for those who are saved—really
affected me. Mysteriously, they struck a new note inside my soul.
A
wise old owl sat in an oak,
The
more he saw the less he spoke,
The
less he spoke the more he heard,
Now
wasn’t he a wise old bird?
—Author
Unknown
For
the next few moments I just sat there stunned, staring silently at my computer
monitor. Could it be? Suddenly, something deep inside my heart seemed to change.
Part of the pain was lifted. I sensed a very definite and loving presence draw
near. I have felt this presence many times throughout the course of my spiritual
journey, but never in this context.
Just
then, an unexpected feeling of hope sprang up! “It’s time for some research
into a new topic!” I told myself.
Chapter 18 –
God Loves Animals, Too!
Not even a sparrow, worth only half a penny,
can fall to the ground without your Father knowing it. Jesus Christ (Matthew
10:29 nlt)
In
the last few years, I have written a number of fast-selling books and have
traveled extensively speaking on Bible topics, especially the mysterious
prophecies of the book of Revelation. My ministry has also taken me into the
arena of radio and international television. I think it’s safe to say that
among my readers, listeners, and viewers, I’ve developed a reputation for
presenting credible and well-researched information. But after Jax died, I
entered an entirely new field of study. I wanted to see what the Bible might
have to say about animals!
I
was amazed at what I found. Going back to Genesis (the Bible’s very first
book), I carefully re-examined the creation account. Chapter one describes how
God made everything by simply speaking. Then chapter two becomes more personal
as Moses related how “the Lord God formed man from the dust of the earth”
(v. 7). This showed me God’s special interest in man. OK, but what about the
animals?
But
now ask the beasts, and they will teach you;
And
the birds of the air, and they will tell you;
Or
speak to the earth, and it will teach you;
And
the fish of the sea will explain to you.
Who
among all these does not know
That
the hand of the Lord has done this,
In
whose hand is the life of every living thing,
And
the breath of all mankind?
—Job
12:7–10
Then
I read, “Out of the ground the Lord God formed every beast of the field . .
.” (v. 19). This taught me that God not only carefully crafted man out of the
earth, but also that He made the animals from the same chunk of ground. It’s
true, only man was created in the image of God (1:26), yet the animals were also
purposefully and specifically “formed” by Him. I was impressed with a number
of things. First, the very idea of “animals” came from God Himself. He
conceived of, designed, built, and then brought them to life. Second, all
animals are therefore primarily God’s animals, for He made them. Third, He
cares for them, or else why spend heavenly time and divine energy forming them
at all?
“Out
of the ground the Lord God formed every beast of the field and every bird of the
air, and brought them to Adam to see what he would call them. And whatever Adam
called each living creature, that was its name. So Adam gave names to all
cattle, to the birds of the air, and to every beast of the field” (2:19, 20).
This was even more interesting! A light went on in my head. I realized that in
the Bible, which is the most important book ever written, one of the very first
assignments God gave to man after He formed him was to name animals!
Just
think of it! How exciting it must have been for Adam to suddenly find himself
surrounded by an entire group of fuzzy, furry, woolly, feathery, purring,
yapping, cooing, chirping, happy creatures! Then I thought, Why did God make
these creatures in the first place? Upon further reflection, the answer seemed
rather simple.
Originally,
God didn’t make His creatures to be killed and processed into McDonald’s
hamburgers or Kentucky Fried Chicken. Not at all. This only came later, and is
the result of man’s sin. Instead, the Lord made them because He is an
intensely creative, highly personal, and extremely loving God (1 John 4:8) who
simply wanted to enhance Adam’s happiness and enjoyment. In other words, the
animals were initially created by God to be man’s friends, not his food: his
pets, not his pork chops. So the Lord made them, and brought them to Adam. I
imagine He said something like, “Here’s some new friends! Now give them
names.” Later Eve came along, but that’s another story.
When
Adam and Eve sinned in Genesis 3, God’s original plan was shattered and His
whole creation was affected. Thankfully, His love for human beings didn’t
change one bit. But what about the animals? Does the Lord still care for them,
even after the fall? In the midst of my is-there-hope-for-Jax research, I soon
turned to the small book of Jonah. As I leafed through the pages, three words
stuck out. Before I hardly noticed them, but now they practically jumped off the
page!
At
the very end of this most unusual story, Jonah became upset because God decided
not to punish the wicked, party-crazed city of Nineveh after all because its
inhabitants had responded to His warning. In a merciful response to His
unreasonable prophet, the Lord inquired, “Should I not pity Nineveh, that
great city, in which are more than one hundred and twenty thousand persons who
cannot discern between their right hand and their left—and much livestock?”
(Jonah 4:11, italics added).
How
marvelous! God not only pitied those sin-loving, disoriented humans in the city
of Nineveh, but He also felt compassion for the mooing cows, baaing sheep, and
bleating goats! These three words, “and much livestock,” revealed to me
God’s tender love and compassion for even the animals that lived there. Think
about it. If He cared back then, don’t you think He still pities the pets in
New York, Los Angeles, Russia, Afghanistan, and all over the world? Of course He
does, for the Good Book says He is “the same yesterday, today, and forever”
(Hebrews 13:8).
O
Lord, you preserve both man and beast.
—Psalm
36:6
As
my research continued, I discovered another Bible story that really touched my
heart. As with the book of Jonah, I’d read it before, but now I was ripe for
another fresh insight from our heavenly Friend. It was the story of
a-prophet-gone-bad named Balaam who abused his faithful donkey. As the two of
them trotted down an isolated and dusty road, a holy angel with an unsheathed
sword suddenly stood before them both, yet only the donkey saw him. Three times
the donkey veered off the path to save his master’s life. Finding his
animal’s actions totally unexplainable, Balaam cruelly reacted three times
with a kick and a fist.
O
Lord, you preserve both man and beast.
—Psalm
36:6
Finally
the angel became visible to the eyes of the astonished prophet. “The angel of
the Lord said to Balaam, ‘Why have you struck your donkey these three
times?’” (Numbers 22:32). Here we see a heavenly angel visiting earth and
rebuking a human for his unreasonable harshness toward his four-legged friend!
Besides this, after complimenting the heroic efforts of the donkey, the angel
said to Balaam, “If she had not turned aside from me, surely I would also have
killed you by now, and let her live” (v. 33, italics added). As a writer who
likes to use his imagination, I could almost picture this headline, “Heavenly
Being Kills Man but Saves Animal Alive.” As with Genesis and the story of
Jonah, another “click” occurred inside my mental computer. Not only does God
love animals, but so do His angels.
I
soon discovered that even the Ten Commandments reveal God’s care for animals.
The fourth commandment says,
Remember
the Sabbath day, to keep it holy. Six days you shall labor and do all your work,
but the seventh day is the Sabbath of the Lord your God, in it you shall do no
work: you, nor your son, nor your daughter, nor your male servant, nor your
female servant, nor your cattle, nor your stranger who is within your gates. For
in six days the Lord made the heavens and the earth, the sea, and all that is in
them, and rested on the seventh day. Therefore the Lord blessed the Sabbath day,
and hallowed it. (Exodus 20:8-11, italics added)
The
fourth commandment reveals God as the all-powerful Creator of heaven and earth.
After making Planet Earth in six literal, 24-hour days, God rested on the
seventh day. His law commands us to cease from secular work on the Sabbath so we
can focus on our Maker, meditate on His creative power revealed in nature, and
above all, get to know Him better. Yet it’s not only people who are to rest.
If you look closely, God’s love extends even to the mooing cows, for they also
are to take a break from plowing the fields (v. 10).
The
Bible says the Ten Commandments were “written with the finger of God” on two
tables of stone (Exodus 31:18). This shows the permanent nature of this law.
Therefore the words, “nor your cattle” (v. 10), being indelibly carved into
solid rock by God Himself, demonstrate the Almighty’s permanent interest in
animals. Yet there’s more. If you think about it, that tiny and often
overlooked phrase, “nor your cattle,” being part of God’s moral law, also
raises the issue of man’s treatment of animals to a moral level. “Nor your
cattle” ultimately means that human beings have a certain moral obligation to
care for the needs of God’s animals, and to treat them kindly.
A
righteous man regards the life of his animal.
—Proverbs
12:10
The
biblical truth about our Creator is of mega-importance. It also contains hidden
depths. The Bible’s last and most mysterious book—“The
Revelation”—reveals a special end-time message emphasizing this very truth.
It is to be communicated “to every nation, tribe, tongue and people” before
the second coming of Jesus Christ (Revelation 14:6, 14-16). This high-impact,
life and death message proclaims, “Worship Him who made heaven and earth, the
sea and springs of water” (v. 7, italics added).
Let’s
go deeper. Who specifically is the One who made heaven and earth—that is, the
Milky Way, earth’s continents, the Pacific Ocean, the Nile River, the animals
in the San Diego Zoo, and everything else in existence? A careful study of the
New Testament reveals it was actually Jesus Christ, who is “equal with God”
(Philippians 2:6). The Bible says that our heavenly Father “created all things
through Jesus Christ” (Ephesians 3:9, italics added).
A
horse is an angel without wings.
—Author
Unknown
Notice
carefully: “He [Jesus Christ] was in the world, and the world was made by him,
and the world knew him not” (John 1:10, kjv,
italics added). Did you catch that? The power-packed message of this simple
verse is that the Bethlehem Baby was really the Creator Himself coming to
earth in the form of a human being. So what does this mean to us animal lovers?
Simply this: It means that every dog, cat, bird, horse, dolphin—or any other
creature—was actually thoughtfully designed, purposefully planned, and
uniquely created by the very same One who ultimately gave His life on a
splintery cross! In other words, all animals are really Jesus Christ’s
animals. He made them, He loves them, and they’re His pets, too.
The
Lord says,
For
every beast of the forest is mine, and the cattle on a thousand hills. I know
all the birds of the mountains, And the wild beasts of the field are mine.
(Psalm 50:10,11 italics added)
“The
Lord is good to all, and His tender mercies are over all His works” (Psalm
145:9). Our Lord has “tender” thoughts toward “all” His works, which
certainly would include His animals. Now ask yourself this question: Whenever a
human being’s beloved dog, cat, bird, or horse gets hit by a car, drowns, dies
from some disease, or simply wastes away from old age, does their Maker feel no
pain? Their earthly owners do. Why is this? The answer is simple, yet profound.
The reason is because human beings were made in the image of God, and the Lord
suffers, too. If we who are in God’s image feel such grief over the loss of an
animal we have grown to love, then surely our pain must reveal a unique window
into His heavenly heart.
I
was really shocked to discover the depths of feeling that pulsated through my
own aching heart when our tiny rat terrier died. In the days that followed,
Kristin and I suffered a lot. It was hard to see that certain brown pillow on
the couch in our living room on which Jax loved to sit. It brought tears to my
eyes to see his little bowl still filled with Jax-food in the kitchen. And then
there was that little Jax-photo of his doggie face on our dresser in the master
bedroom. For many days, as we walked around the house, we imagined him
everywhere! Everything seemed so unreal. Was he really gone, or was this a bad
dream? Then I thought, Where do such feelings come from anyway? As hard as it
was, I learned a mega-lesson about God’s love through my grief. The lesson
was: He cares more than we realize—even for Jax.
Before
I close this chapter I want to share one more precious insight about God’s
love, not for animals, but for people. Look carefully at these words: “For the
invisible things of him from the creation of the world are clearly seen, being
understood by the things that are made” (Romans 1:20). Get it? Paul said we
understand “the invisible things” of God’s character by looking at “the
things that are made.” In other words, God reveals aspects of His personality
to us through His created works. That’s why, in addition to the Bible, nature
is called His second book.
God
“made” Jax, right? When he was alive, every time I came home—and I mean
every time—he could hardly wait to jump and start licking me! In my mind’s
eye I can still see his stubby tail wiggling. The more I think about it, our
dog’s love was ever-constant, even after those rare occasions when I had to
spank his terrier-fanny for pooping or peeing on the carpet. No matter what, his
love remained. Truly, Jax was a super-affectionate dog.
After
his death I thought about his doggie-love more distinctly. Where did such love
come from anyway? Surely, it came from God. Our Creator made his wiggling tail,
licking tongue, and loving heart. Why did He make these things in the first
place? There can be only one answer. The reason is because God’s
“invisible” heart must be filled with wonderful love, and He must have
chosen to reveal a portion of that love through His animals. Maybe that’s why
Moses wrote so long ago, “But now ask the beasts, and they will teach you”
(Job 12:7).
Therefore
when any friendly creature of God—be it a dog, a cat, a bird, or a
horse—prances, purrs, chirps, yaps, licks, snuggles, or tries to love us in
any way, something fantastic is happening. We may not understand it, and it may
roll right past us like the proverbial water off a duck’s back, but we are
witnessing a tiny glimpse of a super-creative and all-wise Creator’s personal
love for us through one of His love letters.
A
meow massages the heart.
—Stuart
McMillan
So,
the next time your horse gently nudges you, or your cat snuggles up against you,
or a little puppy licks you, or your fully-grown faithful friend barks to
protect you from danger, just think about this: Someone in heaven may be trying
to say, “I love you,” through your pet.
Chapter 19 –
Will My Pet Go to Heaven?
I never meant you to be
Dog of My Heart,
But without speech you spoke to me,
Without hands you touched me,
Without reproach you humbled me.
And while I know there would have never been
A long-enough life, or the right time to say good-bye,
I will wait, however long it takes,
To get beyond my miserable state of grief and pain,
Towards warm and comforting
Remembrance,
And gratitude,
For the joy you brought me,
For the truths you taught me.
I never meant you to be
Dog of My Heart,
I only meant for you to mean as much.
But you meant
So much more.
Lillian Sugahara (b. 1955)
Is
there any hope for Jax?” I asked myself seriously. I know, he was just a dog,
but Kristin and I had come to love that tiny ball of fur. Now that I had
definite proof from the Bible that God not only created and loves His animals,
but even reveals a portion of His own love through them, I decided to look for
other passages that might reveal the possibility—however remote—that we
might someday see our little dancing, funny friend again.
In
this chapter I am going to share with you the results of my search and journey.
As I said before, I can’t say for sure whether our pets will be in heaven.
Ultimately, that’s up to God. The Bible doesn’t say in black and white,
“Your dog, cat, or horse will someday have wings.” Nevertheless, I have
found some very significant passages which I think do suggest the strong
possibility that at least some of this world’s sin-suffering animals might
transition over to “the other side.” Of course, you must come to your own
conclusion.
First,
the Bible does plainly teach that a new world is coming. The very last Bible
writer, whose name was John, declared, “I saw a new heaven and a new earth,
for the first heaven and the first earth had passed away . . . And God will wipe
away every tear from their eyes; there shall be no more death, nor sorrow, nor
crying. There shall be no more pain, for the former things have passed away”
(Rev. 21:1, 4). Peter also wrote, “Nevertheless we, according to His promise,
look for new heavens and a new earth in which righteousness dwells” (2 Peter
3:13).
In
that happy place there’ll be no more terrorist hijackers, suicide bombers,
heart disease, arthritis, pain, smog, or taxes to pay to the IRS. We also have
the assurance that animals will be there, too. The Good Book says, “The wolf
also shall dwell with the lamb, the leopard shall lie down with the young goat,
the calf and the young lion and the fatling together; And a little child shall
lead them . . . They shall not hurt nor destroy in all My holy mountain, For the
earth shall be full of the knowledge of the glory of the Lord as the waters
cover the sea” (Isaiah 11:6, 9).
Therefore,
according to 2 Peter 3 and Isaiah 11, not only will saved human beings be there,
but so will wolves, lions, leopards, goats, and probably lots of other animals.
In that wonderful place, wolves won’t snarl, lions won’t bite, and leopards
won’t be scary. God’s promise is, “They shall not hurt nor destroy in all
My holy mountain.” Won’t that be great?
It
seems to me that when it comes to those future kingdom-creatures, God has three
options:
Option
#1: He can create entirely new animals from scratch.
Option
#2: He can bring back to life animals that have suffered in our present world,
giving them immortal bodies.
Option
#3: He can make some new animals and bring back some old ones as well.
Unless
there is some unrevealed factor preventing Him from doing so, I think the
all-powerful God can accomplish any or all of these options. His Word says,
“Behold, I am the Lord, the God of all flesh. Is there anything too hard for
me?” (Jeremiah 32:27). If God wants to re-create in the new world some of the
animals from this old world, it’s an easy task. Besides, by then He will have
already accomplished something much more dramatic—the resurrection of all the
dead human beings.
Jesus
Christ said, “Do not marvel at this; for the hour is coming in which all who
are in the graves will hear His voice and come forth . . .” (John 5:28, 29).
At His second coming, “many of those who sleep in the dust of the earth shall
awake . . .” (Daniel 12:2). “For the trumpet will sound, and the dead will
be raised incorruptible, and we shall be changed” (1 Corinthians 15:52).
Therefore, if God has the supernatural turbo-power to resurrect dead human
beings at the return of Jesus Christ, then surely He has the ability to bring
back to life a mini-dog named Jax in His new earth if He so chooses. It would be
as easy as snapping His fingers.
During
my pet search, a gentle voice behind my mind seemed to whisper, “Read Romans
8.” I had read this chapter before, but now something beckoned toward a closer
look. After paging my way to this New Testament section, this is what I found:
For
the earnest expectation of the creature eagerly waiteth for the manifestation of
the sons of God. For the creature was made subject to vanity, not willingly, but
by reason of him who hath subjected the same in hope. Because the creature
itself also shall be delivered from the bondage of corruption into the glorious
liberty of the children of God. For we know that the whole creation groaneth and
travaileth in pain together until now. And not only they, but ourselves also,
which have the firstfruits of the Spirit, even we ourselves groan within
ourselves, waiting for the adoption . . . the redemption of our body. (Romans
8:19–23, kjv)
These
words deserve careful consideration. In fact, this has become one of my main
there-might-be-hope-for-Jax sections. In my Bible prophecy seminars, I always
encourage my audiences to put away preconceived opinions and to pay close
attention to the text—to the actual words of God. Only then can we really
understand the message of truth. If we look closely at Romans 8:19–23, the
concepts are truly amazing.
Paul
revealed how Adam’s sin affected the “whole creation” (v. 22), which must
include the animals, too. Yet sin will not continue forever. In the interim, the
“creature itself” (v. 21) is portrayed as “eagerly waiting” (v. 19), in
“hope” (v. 20), while yet “groaning . . . in pain” (v. 22) until the
full restoration after the second coming of Jesus Christ. Then “the creature
itself also shall be delivered from the bondage of corruption into the glorious
liberty of the children of God” (v. 21).
Did
you catch that? After the return of Jesus Christ even “the creature itself
also shall be delivered” (v. 21, italics added). To me, the words “also . .
. delivered” seem to reveal the positive transition of Planet Earth and at
least some of it’s creatures from one state to another. The first state is one
of bondage, corruption, and pain as a result of Adam’s sin. The second
state—after the second coming of Jesus Christ—is one in which “the
creature [creation] itself” will also be delivered from this very corruption
in order to share in the “glorious liberty of the children of God.” It seems
to me that Romans 8:19–23 implies that at least some of the creatures in this
sinful world will be delivered from their present suffering resulting from
man’s sin and transported into the new earth.
That’s
a pretty powerful passage, isn’t it? But guess what? There’s an even better
Bible section that gives me hope for Jax. In fact, if it wasn’t for the
discovery of this super-unique Bible passage, this book might not have been
written. As we examine these verses, you be the judge. They’re definitely
about animals, their deaths, and their return to the dust. But then—at least
it seems this way to me—they also talk about how God will bring them back to
life again!
Of
all the creatures God made at the Creation, there is none more excellent or so
much to be respected, as a horse.
—Bedouin
Legend
These
amazing verses are found in Psalm 104. It’s a Psalm of God’s works, of His
creation, and of His wonderful care for both man and animals. Written by King
David, Psalm 104 mentions every beast of the field and the wild donkeys (v. 11),
the birds (v. 12), the cattle (v. 14), the wild goats (v. 18), rock badgers (v.
18), living things both small and great (v. 25), the young lions (v. 21) and
finally, man (v. 23). Ecstatic about God’s creativity and His tender care for
all His creatures, David burst forth with joy, “O Lord, how manifold are Your
works! In wisdom You have made them all. The earth is full of Your
possessions” (v. 24).
Read
the following words very carefully:
These
all wait for You, That You may give them their food in due season. What You give
them they gather in; You open your hand, they are filled with good. You hide
your face, they are troubled; You take away their breath, they die and return to
their dust. You send forth Your Spirit, they are created; And You renew the face
of the earth. May the glory of the Lord endure forever; May the Lord rejoice in
His works (vv. 27–31, italics
added).
With
a sense of awe I read that section again and again. Wow!
was my exact thought. In the spirit of honest inquiry and with a true desire to
accurately discover what the Bible really says, I will list five points worth
considering:
1) Psalm 104
definitely concerns both man and animals.
2) The death
of animals is described: “You take away their breath, they die, and return to
their dust” (v. 29).
3) Then
David seems to describe God bringing back to life at least some of the very ones
that have died: “You send forth Your Spirit, they are created” (v. 30).
Again, “they die . . . they are
created” (Italics added).
4) This
passage seems to point forward to the time of the new earth, for David
continues, “. . . they are created, and You renew the face of the earth.”
This renewal also seems to parallel a New Testament prediction about how, after
the second coming of Jesus Christ, there will come “the times of restoration
of all things, which God has spoken by the mouth of all His holy prophets since
the world began” (Acts 3:20, 21).
5) Finally,
Psalm 104:31 looks into eternity with the triumphant shout, “May the glory of
the Lord endure forever; May the Lord rejoice in His works.”
After
reading verse 31, I thought to myself, Wasn’t Jax one of God’s works?
Didn’t the Lord create him and keep his little doggie heart beating for three
happy years? And what about all those endearing and funny qualities that touched
our hearts—wasn’t God Himself the author of every positive personality
trait?
Of
course, when God finally does create a new earth during “the times of
restoration of all things,” He surely has the option of making another dog
comparable to Jax, or no dogs at all for that matter. But then again, why not
restore to life that same little five-pound ball of fur? It makes sense to me
that He might do this. Psalm 104 does say, “they die . . . they are created,
and You renew the face of the earth” (v. 31). The bottom line is, whatever God
ultimately decides, Psalm 104 gives me another reason to hope in the possibility
that I might see Jax again.
Then
another thought popped into my head, What about God’s promise to answer our
prayers? The Lord says, “Call to Me, and I will answer you” (Jeremiah 33:3).
People often ask God for things and then watch Him “answer.” Sometimes we
pray for major things like forgiveness for some sin, for victory over powerful
temptations, for guidance in choosing a marriage partner, for relatives who
don’t know His love, etc., etc. We also pray for smaller, more personal things
like passing a school exam, for a virus-infected computer to start functioning
again, for weight-loss assistance, for help in finding lost car keys, etc., etc.
A real Christian is a praying Christian, and real Christians often thank God for
large as well as tiny answers to prayer.
As
I was studying the Word, and grieving over Jax, I thought to myself, God has
answered so many of my prayers, so what’s wrong with asking Him to bring Jax
back to life someday? Jesus even said, “If you then, being evil, know how to
give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father who is in
heaven give good things to those who ask Him!” (Matthew 7:11). Then I
pondered, Wouldn’t seeing Jax again be a good thing? It seemed so. Again I
thought, If I had infinite power, wouldn’t I give this good gift to my child?
So shortly thereafter, Kristin and I knelt down in our sunroom and prayed a
special, focused prayer to our loving heavenly Father in the name of His Son,
Jesus Christ. I don’t remember exactly what we said, but it was something
like,
Dear
God, we really loved Jax, and we know You loved him, too. After all, he was one
of Your works. The Bible says You do answer prayer, and so we ask You this
specifically: When You finally do remake the heavens and the earth, if it’s
Your will, please bring Jax back to life so we can see him again. In Jesus’
name we pray, Amen.
I’m
sure the good Lord heard that prayer, and so did His angels. It’s a fact—a
formal prayer from two sincere believers about a dog named Jax was lodged that
day before the throne of the King of the universe. We trust our Father’s
heart. Ultimately, it’s up to Him. We really hope He chooses to answer our
humble request.
At
the beginning of this book I listed some stories about how animals have rescued
lost children or adults who had fallen into danger. Some of these tales are
intensely dramatic, even worth reporting on CNN. Do you think God Himself might
be involved behind the scenes in some of these stories? I do. In fact, the Bible
itself records how God sent a bird to feed the prophet Elijah so he wouldn’t
die in the desert (1 Kings 17:4). Yes, God sometimes does mobilize His non-human
creatures to help or save people in need, and I imagine that some of these
rescue operations come as a direct answer to the prayers of humans.
To
the dolphin alone, nature has given that which the best philosophers seek:
Friendship for no advantage. Though it has no need of help from any man, it is a
genial friend to all and has helped mankind.
—Plutarch
(circa 45–125 a.d.)
In
this light, is it so unthinkable that God might answer the prayer of a human by
recreating a much-loved pet in the new earth, simply because we ask Him to?
Concerning the resurrection of Jesus Christ, Paul said, “Why should it be
thought a thing incredible with you, that God should raise the dead?” (Acts
26:8, kjv). God is a
miracle-worker. If He can resurrect the dead, then surely He can bring a tiny
dog back to life. The Lord loves people and animals, and He definitely answers
prayer. Will He answer our Jax-prayer? We hope so.
“For
with God nothing will be impossible.” Luke 1:37. The Almighty made Planet
Earth in one literal week (Genesis 1 & 2). He opened the Red Sea for the
Israelites to pass through (Exodus 14) and shook the ground of Mount Sinai
(Exodus 19 & 20) when He gave the Ten Commandments. He later caused the sun
to stand still for Joshua (Joshua 10). During the reign of Persia, He shut the
mouths of hungry lions so they wouldn’t eat his friend Daniel for supper
(Daniel 6).
The
greatest miracle of all occurred approximately 2000 years ago. The Eternal One
even incarnated Himself into tiny microscopic cells inside the body of Mary
(John 1:1–3,14; Matthew 1:23). Jesus Christ was born, grew up, lived,
suffered, and died on a cruel cross to demonstrate God’s love for man, and to
atone for our sins. Then on the third day He rose from the dead (Matthew
28:5,6).
In
view of such stupendous miracles, doesn’t the Almighty have the power to
re-create a mini-dog named Jax if He wants to?
I
think so.
Chapter 20 –
Mysteries of Heaven’s Lamb
Man, do not pride yourself on superiority to
animals; they are without sin, and you, with your greatness, defile the earth by
your appearance on it, and leave the traces of your foulness after you—alas,
it is true of almost every one of us!
Fyodor Dostoyevsky (1821–1881)
One
of the themes of this book is that God not only loves people, but animals, too.
After all, He created their beating hearts, intricate brains, breathing lungs,
and functioning livers—plus their mysterious and almost human-like ability to
suffer, cry, and even love. Yet for many animal lovers who read the Bible, a
difficult question arises: If God cares so much for all His creatures, then why
did He command Adam, Abel, Noah, Moses, King David, and millions of Jews to
slice the throats of friendly lambs?
In
order to understand this painful and repulsive practice, we must again go back
to the book of Genesis. The Holy Book begins with this simple and majestic
sentence: “In the beginning God created the heavens and the earth” (Genesis
1:1). On the first day He made the light (v. 3). On the second day He spread out
the blue sky (v. 8). On the third day He formed Planet Earth itself with its
peacefully rolling sea (v. 13). On the fourth day He made the brilliant sun, the
reflecting moon, and all the shining stars (v. 16). On day five He spoke the
colorful birds and numerous sea creatures into existence (v. 20). Then on the
sixth day . . . Presto! . . . He formed the animals and then man (vv. 25 and
26).
“Then
God said, ‘Let us make man in Our image, according to Our likeness . . .’”
(1:26). How marvelous! We didn’t evolve from slime, goop, sludge, quadrupeds,
mollusks, fish, or apes. Definitely not! The Bible says an all-powerful
Creator—a God of love—originally made human beings in His own likeness. Thus
the first man began with two legs, not four. His name was Adam, and his wife was
called Eve. Then God placed our first parents in a beautiful garden called Eden.
Eden
was a happy place, graced with crystal clear rivers, colorful flowers,
magnificent trees, smog-free air, and yes, lots of furry, four-legged, friendly
animals. Yet in the very midst of this perfect paradise grew a forbidden tree,
“the tree of the knowledge of good and evil” (2:17). The Bible reveals that
in His infinite wisdom, God made this tree to test the love and loyalty of Adam
and Eve for their Maker. Did they appreciate the gift of life from the Almighty
Giver? Were they thankful to have each other as companions? Did they appreciate
even the furry animals He created to add to their happiness and enjoyment? Love
for their all-gracious Maker, this was the core issue.
“The
Lord God commanded the man, saying, ‘You are free to eat from every tree of
the garden. But you shall not eat of the tree of the knowledge of good and evil.
For in the day you eat of it, you will surely die’” (2:16, 17). There it is,
God’s test of love, and His awesome warning of death if they purposefully
chose to disobey. Amazingly, Adam and Eve failed the test! A highly-intelligent,
super-tricky enemy seduced them from their loyalty (see 3:1–6). Eve “took of
its fruit and ate. She also gave to her husband with her, and he ate” (3:6).
This infamous act of ingratitude and rebellion against the expressed will of
their Maker was not only wrong, but deadly. In the Bible, that act is given this
name: Sin. Sin is serious.
“Through
one man sin entered the world, and death through sin” (Romans 5:12). You may
have a hard time believing this, but all of Earth’s present problems,
including the horrors of the Nazi Holocaust, the nightmare of starvation in
Africa, the evil of child-abuse, the intense pain of September 11, 2001, and
even the comparatively insignificant death of a small rat terrier named Jax—these
are all ultimately rooted in that one bitter bite of forbidden fruit.
So
what was a loving God to do? Should He allow Adam and Eve to perish in their
sins, or implement a plan for their salvation? Fortunately for us, God chose the
latter. Because death was the divine penalty for sin, His special plan out of
necessity also involved death, even the death of His Son. That’s why the Bible
not only says, “The wages of sin is death” but also, “the gift of God is
eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord” (6:23).
Here’s
a very important question. How did God decide to powerfully illustrate His
unique plan for our salvation? The answer is: Through the death of His animals!
Try
to imagine this scene. A humble Jewish family has a little lamb that their
children named Softy. He’s so cute; they treat him like a pet. The kids love
him, feed him, and sometimes even sleep with him. Yet one day their dad takes
Softy away.
“Where’s
our little lamb?” the children ask their mom.
“Your
father took him to the Temple.”
“Oh
. . . well . . . when are they coming back?” the kids ask nervously.
A
tear forms in mom’s eyes, she holds the boys close and whispers, “Boys,
Softy is not coming back . . .”
Leading
Softy with a rope, the father arrives at the Temple, and slowly approaches the
altar of sacrifice. Softy isn’t afraid, for he trusts his owner. After gently
positioning the timid creature in front of him, dad places his quivering hand on
the animal’s unsuspecting head, much like a man would stroke his pet. He
confesses his sins over it, representing the transfer of those sins to the
innocent victim. A specially-robed priest then hands the father a razor-sharp
knife, which he quietly slips under its woolly throat. The lamb tenses slightly,
and swallows. Beads of sweat form on the man’s head as his heart races wildly.
Finally, the man closes his eyes and says a prayer. “Baa,” says the lamb. In
the next instant there is a horrific groan as the knife is plunged into the
animal’s warm flesh, and as its blood spurts and pours. Softy’s eyes roll
upward in that moment of shock and terror, and it’s over.
All
we like sheep have gone astray; We have turned, every one, to his own way; And
the Lord has laid on him the sin of us all.
—Isaiah
53:6
In
this awful ceremony—repeated millions of times in Jewish history—God was
teaching the human race both the Bad News and the Good News. The Bad News is
that sin is more serious than we realize, and its penalty is death. But the Good
News is that our loving Creator decided to come to earth as a man and to offer
His own life as a perfect sacrifice in our place.
The
ancient Jewish prophets predicted that the Savior would come. Micah said His
birthplace would be in Bethlehem (Micah 5:2). Isaiah said He would be like “a
lamb led to the slaughter” (Isaiah 53:7). When Jesus Christ finally appeared
on earth after thousands of years of sin, sorrow, and animal sacrifices, a
prophet named John shouted loudly, “Behold! The Lamb of God who takes away the
sin of the world!” (John 1:29). The perfect sacrificial lamb had come in the
person of Jesus Christ.
After
Jax died, in the midst of my animal research, I was increasingly struck by the
definite Jesus-animal connection revealed in the prophecies and described in the
New Testament. In fact, the very last book of the Bible refers many times to
Jesus as the Lamb (see Revelation 5:6,12; 6:1; 7:17; 13:8; 14:1,10; 15:3; 17:14;
19:9; 21:21; 22:1). Thus the Bible not only uses an animal to represent Jesus
Christ, but this is also the primary symbol for Him in the book of Revelation.
Why
a lamb? I pondered. Why illustrate Christ’s sacrifice by the death of an
innocent creature? Suddenly the answer burst upon me like sunlight from behind a
cloud. From the very beginning in Eden, God must have created human beings and
the more intelligent animals with a certain capacity to lovingly bond with each
other. Remember, one of the very first things God did after He made Adam was to
surround him with animals so he could name them. Thus the animals were
originally created to be man’s companions and friends. In other words, God
designed human hearts and animal hearts to mysteriously connect.
After
Adam and Eve foolishly fell away from their Creator, the Lord wanted to reveal
to the whole human race the seriousness of sin, His plan of salvation, His
desire to win our hearts. So what was the best way He could think of to
accomplish these goals? The incredible answer is: By telling human beings to
take the very animals they were naturally designed to love, and to kill them!
It
was hard enough to watch Jax get hit by a car and to see him bleeding in the
street. But what if God told me to take a knife myself and slit his throat? I
could hardly do it. It would be extremely difficult and painful. Almost
impossible. But that’s the point. By telling man to take an innocent, woolly,
friendly animal—a lamb—and then to kill it with his own bare hands, this was
God’s way of trying to show us how horrible sin is and how awesome is the
infinite sacrifice of Jesus Christ. “Kill the lamb,” God commanded, “and
realize it represents my Son who will die in your place for your sins.” Such a
painful, high-impact revelation should melt our hearts with His love and also
lead us to turn away from our sins!
Paul
wrote, “For I delivered to you first of all that which I also received: that
Christ died for our sins according to the Scriptures, and that He was buried,
and that He rose again the third day according to the Scriptures” (1
Corinthians 15:3,4). This is the Good News in a nutshell. Jesus is our
sin-bearer, our all-sufficient sacrifice—the final sacrifice (Hebrews 10:12).
We
can easily forgive a child who is afraid of the dark. The real tragedy of life
is when men are afraid of the light.
—Plato
(427–347 b.c.)
Have
you ever had to euthanize your favorite dog, cat, bird, monkey, sheep, goat, or
horse? A close friend of mine who is married and has two small children put his
only dog to sleep recently. “It was one of the hardest things I ever did!”
he moaned. In a sense, that’s exactly what the heavenly Father did to His Son
on the cross two thousand years ago. But Jesus Christ had to die so we could
live.
For
God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes
in Him should not perish but have everlasting life.
—John
3:16
How
should we respond to such love? The Bible clearly says we should:
1)
“Repent,” which means to confess and forsake our sins (Proverbs 28:13; Luke
13:3,5; Acts 2:38; 1 John 1:9).
2)
Believe in Jesus Christ as our Savior instead of relying on our own goodness,
works, or merits for eternal salvation (John 3:16; Ephesians 2:8,9).
3)
Trust fully in God’s grace and free forgiveness for every sin (1 John 1:9;
Romans 4:7,8).
4)
Receive by faith the power of His Holy Spirit into our hearts (Acts 1:8; Romans
5:5).
5)
Because we love Him, live moral lives by the grace of God in harmony with the
Ten Commandments (John 14:15; Titus 2:11,12; Revelation 12:17; 14:12).
6)
Wait patiently for the second coming of Jesus Christ (Matthew 24:30,31,44; Titus
2:13; Revelation 14:14–16).
7)
Look forward to God’s new earth (2 Peter 3:13; Revelation 21:1–5).
After
Jax died I read God’s book, the Bible. The truth became so clear to me. I
understood His desire for us to love His animals. I also knew why He said,
“The lambs must die!” Then I saw the Lamb, and our loving God’s perfect
plan to win our hearts.
Twenty-three years ago I gave
my heart to God. It was the best decision I’ve ever made.
A lie can travel halfway around the world
while the truth is putting on its shoes.
Mark
Twain (1835–1910)
“Why
did you write that unusual chapter, Dead
Dogs Don’t Bark?” the producer of one of the programs on Billy
Graham’s Decision Today radio network asked me right before an interview
about this book. “I know, it’s different,” I said, “But believe it or
not, many grieving pet owners today are not only pondering whether or not their
deceased animal is still alive somewhere, but even whether their four-legged
friend might somehow be able to communicate with them from the other side.”
In
my Jax-research I discovered this to be true and was surprised to discover
numerous accounts of individuals who claim that the spirit of their dead pet
actually appeared to them from beyond the grave. Because of this growing trend,
I decided to address this topic.
The Pets that Returned
(35)
“Mr.
Gerald Mills lives in the Northern town of Sheffield, Yorkshire UK. He has owned
many pets during his lifetime but two have been extra special. This is his
extraordinary story:
“Some
years ago I was working in a factory in Sheffield when I noticed a little black
kitten that was lost and on its own. The poor thing was covered in dirt and oil
from the factory floor where it had been living. In truth I thought it would not
live long as it was so weak when I found it. But I took it home and gave it some
warm milk and a tiny bit of fish I had in the fridge. Then I placed it in an old
shoe box with some clean dusters to keep it warm. The next morning the little
kitten was still alive and looking at me as though I were its best friend. Well
I suppose I was in a way. So I fed it some more milk and the cat purred so
softly. I was really taken with it and gave it a name. I called the cat, Tiger,
because it had stripes and was obviously a brave kitten.
“I
already owned a dog called Suzy and soon Tiger and she were real pals. It was
fun to watch them playing together. They were like that for many years, Tiger
and Suzy side by side sitting in front of our coal fire, best of friends.
“Years
passed by so swiftly, it hardly seemed any time at all since I first found that
kitten. Tiger and Suzy had grown old together and now, as God would have it,
they both became ill at the same time. I tried to nurse them, but it was time
and rather than see them suffering I took both Tiger and Suzy to the veterinary
surgeon. I held them in my arms as he helped them to pass over into the spirit
world.
“It
was some two years later that I noticed something strange at the foot of my bed.
I was almost asleep when I first felt it, a kind of snuggly thing pressing
against my feet. Immediately I thought of Tiger, she would often fall asleep on
my bed and snuggle up near the foot of my bed. Looking down towards where I felt
the pressure on my feet I saw, to my amazement, a cat. It was the spirit of
Tiger come back from beyond to comfort me.
“As
I stared in wonder at the ‘ghost’ of Tiger I heard a strange but familiar
sound coming from downstairs. It sounded just like the barking of a dog. As I
listened I recognized the bark as being that of my old friend Suzy. She too had
returned to wish me well and let me know that in the future, when it is my turn
to walk forward into the world of spirit, my pets will be there to welcome me.
They were together still, Suzy and Tiger, alive and well in their spirit
bodies.” (36)
This
is not an isolated incident. John G. Sutton is the author of the book, Psychic
Pets: Supernatural True Stories of Paranormal Animals. One of the chapters in
John’s book entitled, Gypsy the Singing Cat, contains a non-fiction account of
“a cat voice” that supposedly sang “from beyond the grave.” (37) I also
came across another popular book called, Ghost Dogs of the South (38), which has
this summary statement on its publishers’ web site advertising its contents:
Digging
deeply through the rich field of Southern folklore, the authors have discovered
that a dog’s devotion to its human does not always end at the grave. Dogs can
be as peculiar as people. Their relationship with humans is complex. In story
after story from Southern homes, there is strong evidence that this relationship
can extend beyond death. Do dogs return from the other side to comfort and aid
their human companions? You bet your buried bones they do. (39)
I’m
sure you’re aware that there are lots of so-called spiritualists, mediums, and
psychics out there who claim the ability to communicate with the dead. But did
you know that some of these profess an ability to contact not only those who had
two legs, but also those with four? And with the increasing popularity of books
like New York Times bestseller Talking to Heaven: A Medium’s Message of
Life after Death (40), New Age
radio programs like The Next Dimension, and psychic TV shows like Crossing Over
with John Edward and The Pet Psychic, it seems the temptation is growing for
more and more pet-grieving seekers to try and contact Fuzzy or Fido again.
In
my research I also located the web site of Carla Person, a woman who features
herself as a “Shamanic Healer and Animal Communicator,” and one who
definitely claims the psychic ability to contact our dead pets. On her internet
home page I found this listed as one of the services she offers her many
clients: “Learn how your special friend is doing in the afterlife, if/when she
will return, and what messages she has for you.” (41)
Here’s
something to think about: How come you never see a headline like “Psychic Wins
Lottery”?
—Jay
Leno (b. 1950)
Whenever
a favorite animal dies, it’s natural to wish it was still here. Kristin and I
have been there and done that. This really, really hurts. But is it realistic to
believe our dead pets are yet alive somewhere beyond our realm of time and
space? In other words, have they now passed over into some spirit world? Can
their ghosts still bark, baa, neigh, or purr? Do animals have separate souls
that can exit their furry bodies, fly upwards to heaven, and then go back and
forth between up there and down here, appearing or disappearing at will?
First
of all, the Bible nowhere says that animals in this sinful world are by nature
immortal, that they have separately conscious spirit-souls capable of leaving
their bodies, or that these invisible, intelligent entities float upwards to
heaven when they die. And there is definitely no “word from the Lord” in the
Scriptures about any pet-ghosts making noises from beyond the grave. It’s
true, animals do have what the Bible calls “the breath of life” or “the
breath of the spirit of life” (see Genesis 7:15,21,22; Psalm 104:29,30), but
this breath or spirit is not an internally intelligent entity capable of exiting
animal bodies, hovering over pet-graves, watching pet-funeral services, and
later meowing in response to the beckoning of a spirit medium.
In
fact, the Bible actually forbids all forms of attempted communication with those
who have died, which, in principle, would certainly apply to God’s lesser
creatures. When the Israelites were about to enter the Land of Promise, the Lord
strictly warned:
When
you come into the land which the Lord your God is giving you, you shall not
learn to follow the abominations of those nations. There shall not be found
among you anyone who makes his son or daughter pass through the fire, or one who
practices witchcraft, or a soothsayer, or one who interprets omens, or a
sorcerer, or one who conjures spells, or a medium, or a spiritist, or one who
calls up the dead. For all who do these things are an abomination to the Lord,
and because of these abominations the Lord your God drives them out from before
you. You shall be blameless before the Lord your God. (Deuteronomy 18:9–13,
italics added)
I
realize these are strong words, but God knows they are needed. The reason for
this counsel is because the Lord desires to protect His children, not just from
the deception of phony psychics, but also from contact with real spirits. These
may seem friendly, but their hidden agenda is not our happiness. Remember the
super-tricky, highly-intelligent, invisible enemy who seduced Adam and Eve into
sin? (see Genesis 3:1–6). Well, he still exists, and so do his angels. The
Bible refers to this sinister being as “that serpent of old, called the Devil
and Satan, who deceives the whole world; he was cast out into the earth, and his
angels were cast out with him” (Revelation 12:9).
In
an age of universal deceit, telling the truth is a revolutionary act.
—George
Orwell (1903–1950)
God’s
Holy Book has much to say about mediums and familiar spirits (Leviticus 20:6),
and it’s not positive. These things are placed in the same category as
witchcraft (2 Kings 21:6). Biblically speaking, a familiar spirit is a spirit or
ghost from the other side that looks, acts, and talks in a familiar way. These
spirits usually take the form of dead humans, like one’s cousin Ralph, or aunt
Suzie. Based on books like Psychic Pets, Ghost Dogs from the South, and the
spiritualistic activities of people like Carla Person, it seems they can even
look like Fido.
But
honestly, “familiarity” is not reality. Based on God’s Word, we can safely
say they are clever impersonations. These friendly-looking spirits are really
dangerous fallen angels in league with Lucifer. The book of Revelation lifts the
veil on these beings, saying, “They are the spirits of devils, working
miracles” (Revelation 16:14). Therefore, just like the Titanic should have
steered clear of the iceberg, even so should we steer clear of all mysterious beyond-the-grave
human ghosts or pet spirits. On the other hand, we should know that real angels
like the ones that spoke to Balaam, the virgin Mary, and Peter do sometimes
appear in order to advance God’s purpose (see Numbers 22:22–35; Luke
1:26–38; Acts 12:5–11).
Before
I close this chapter, I want to clarify the basic biblical timeline so you can
understand exactly when a person might hope to see a favorite pet again.
1. The Creation—God made a perfect garden in Eden for both human beings
and animals (Genesis 1 and 2).
2. The Fall of Man—When Adam and Eve were seduced into sin by a
beautiful, brilliant, fallen angel named Lucifer who used a serpent as his
medium (Genesis 3; Isaiah 14:12–14; Ezekiel 28:14,15,17; Revelation 12:9). As
a result of sin, corruption and death entered our world, which also affected
God’s animals.
3.
Fallen Human History—The zigzagging course of Planet Earth after sin
entered (Genesis 6:5,11,12; Matthew 24:12-14). Animal sacrifices were initiated
which pointed toward the future appearance and sacrificial death of the
Lamb-Man, Jesus Christ (Genesis 3:21; 4:4).
4. The First Coming of Jesus Christ—The apex of God’s awesome plan to
save human beings from sin and death. On a cruel cross—Heaven’s Ground
Zero—the Lamb-Man died for the sins of the entire world (1 John 2:2). Jesus
Christ was buried, rose again, and then ascended bodily to heaven (1 Corinthians
15:3, 4; Acts 1:9–11).
5. The Second Coming of Jesus Christ—The future climax of fallen human
history. The Lamb-Man will return visibly at the end of this world (Matthew
24:14,27,30,31,44; 25:31,32; 28:20).
6. The Resurrection of Dead Humans—There will be a final, literal,
bodily resurrection of both the saved and the lost (Daniel 12:2; John 5:28,29;
Acts 24:15; 1 Thessalonians 4:16,17; Revelation 20:4–6).
7.
The Final Judgment—When human beings are held accountable for their
personal sins of breaking God’s moral law and even for their cruel
mistreatment of His animals. The lost will then realize why they are lost, that
is, because they have persistently turned away from their Maker, His love, and
from the fullness of Jesus Christ’s sacrifice (Daniel 7:9,10; Ecclesiastes
12:13,14; John 3:16-21; Revelation 20:11–13).
I
tremble for my species when I reflect that God is just.
—Thomas
Jefferson (1743–1826)
8.
Earth’s Final Purification by Fire—In an awesome act of incredible
majesty and infinite power, the Almighty will use high-temperature flames to
completely cleanse Planet Earth from all the toxic effects of sin and Satan (2
Peter 3:7,10; Revelation 20:14,15).
9. The New Earth—After the final sanitizing of this sin-polluted earth
and it’s smog-infected atmosphere, God will wondrously remake the heavens and
the earth to restore life as it was in the beginning (2 Peter 3:10–13;
Revelation 20:15; 21:1).
10.
The Creation of New Animals—In His new earth, the Lord God will once
again create four-legged, friendly animals as loving companions for eternally
saved human beings. But because sin will never occur again, these animals will
never die (Isaiah 11:6,9; 65:17,25; Nahum 1:9).
I
want to stress that it will be in the new earth that God will once again create
His animals. And these kingdom-pets will not be floating spirits that soar down
from heaven into perfect animal bodies. Not at all. If we stick with the Bible
there’s no real evidence that our dead pets are alive in heaven with Jesus
Christ right now, and they certainly can’t meow, bark, or woof at us from the
other side. Thus the title of my book, Will My Pet Go to Heaven?, biblically,
realistically, and sensibly applies to God’s new earth, not to an immediate
afterlife that may be entered at the moment of death.
As
painful as it is for my wife and me, the fact is, Jax is dead and his tiny grave
lies just west of Fort Worth. This is part of the reality of sin. The Scripture
says, “All go to one place: all are from the dust, and all return to the
dust” (Ecclesiastes 3:20). But the good news is, sin won’t last forever and
a new earth is coming. When heaven’s clock finally ticks over to that time,
there really is no biblical evidence that God will do anything other than what
He did in the Garden of Eden, which was to form “every beast of the field . .
. out of the ground” (Genesis 2:19, italics supplied). Therefore, just like in
the past, God’s future kingdom-creatures will come from the dust, not a spirit
world. And it will be at this time that Kristin and I hope to see Jax again, if
Jesus Christ so chooses.
Let
hundreds like me perish, but let TRUTH prevail.
—Mahatma
Gandhi (1869–1948)
No
matter how popular the psychic radio programs and TV shows may be, I urge you to
stay away from all mediums, paranormal psychic-communicators, and especially
familiar spirits. If a ghostly apparition looks an awful lot like your grandpa
Bill, your sister Martha, or even Snow Ball or Fido, don’t interact with it;
it is a lie.
I
know the loss of any loved one is terribly hard. But really, the safest thing is
to find solace in true earthly friends and in the living “God of all
comfort” (2 Corinthians 1:3). Our heavenly Friend really cares, and He knows
what it’s like to lose a loved one. It happened to Him when His own Son died
on a cross.
Chapter 22 –
Pets, People, & Priorities
Of how much more value then is a man than a
sheep?
Jesus Christ (Matthew 12:12)
God
loves our pets, and He wants us to love them, too. But when it comes to
intrinsic value, one human being—just one—is more precious to the heavenly
Father than all the dogs that ever barked, all the cats that ever purred, all
the birds that ever chirped, all the sheep that ever went “baa,” and all the
horses that ever neighed. Jesus Christ says to each of us, “You are of more
value than many sparrows” (Matthew 10:31, italics added). In fact, if you
could be placed on a shelf with a price tag, it would read, “Cost: The life of
God’s Son!”
When
Kristin and I went through the pain of losing Jax, behind it all, this thought
kept echoing in my soul, If we care so much for a tiny terrier, how much more
must God care for human beings? Jax died less than two months after terrorist
hijackers destroyed the World Trade Center and crashed into the Pentagon.
Compared to the loss of husbands, wives, sons, daughters, and close friends who
died at Ground Zero or on those American and United flights, our dog’s death
was nearly insignificant.
This
“Human Beings Have Priority” issue is easily proven by once again taking a
closer look at the original creation week. As we have already seen, during the
first four days God created the light, the sky, the earth, the sea, the sun, the
moon, and the stars. On the fifth day He made the birds and the fish. During the
first part of the sixth day He formed the animals. After that, as His final act
of super-creative genius, “The Lord said, ‘Let us make man in our image,
after our likeness’” (Genesis 1:26). Thus man was made last, and he alone
was formed in God’s express image. In other words, God’s crowning work had
two legs, not four.
After
Adam and Eve sinned, God’s special plan was implemented for the specific
purpose of saving humans, not animals. And as we saw earlier, throughout the Old
Testament God was even willing to sacrifice animals to illustrate His plan. This
fact alone should lead us to value people above pets. When Jesus Christ finally
entered this world to offer His life as the ultimate sacrifice for sin, the
Bible says, “Christ died for us” (Romans 5:8, italics added)—not for Fido,
Fuzzy, or Black Beauty.
The
more I think about the excruciating agony and infinite sacrifice of Jesus Christ
to save human beings from sin and its attached penalty of eternal death, I must
say that although I do appreciate the good deeds of the Humane Society, I value
the work of the American Bible Society more. After His resurrection, Jesus
didn’t specifically tell His followers to “Go into all the world and rescue
stray dogs,” as important as this is. Instead He commissioned, “Go into all
the world and preach the gospel” (Mark 16:15).
Therefore,
our primary energies should be centered on reaching out to disoriented,
mixed-up, lost human beings with the good news of the Savior who died for them.
The fact is, our greatest happiness can never be found in an exclusive devotion
to God’s animals—even though sometimes they are easier to live with!
Instead, it comes through discovering our Creator’s love, in experiencing His
awesome grace and forgiveness, and by a life of heartfelt service to other
people created in His own image.
Too
often we underestimate the power of a touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening
ear, an honest compliment, or the smallest act of caring, all of which have the
potential to turn a life around.
—Leo
Buscaglia (1924–1998)
It’s
awful to think about all the abandoned dogs that roam our streets without
collars, yet a homeless child is worse. While it may be heart-sickening to
imagine a crying puppy in the pound, how can this compare to the fading eyes of
a starving boy or girl? While we may rejoice when a favorite cat hit by a Toyota
recovers, what is this compared to the deliverance of a child-abused heroin
addict from New York who surrenders his life to God’s power? While God may
smile when an Arabian horse’s half-broken ankle heals, Jesus Christ taught
that there is greater “joy in the presence of the angels of God over one
sinner who repents” (Luke 15:10). In other words, when human beings repent
down here, holy angels have a huge celebration up there!
Should
we love the animals? yes. Be kind to God’s creatures? of course. Enjoy their
companionship? for sure. But let’s never forget that the Creator of all
life—in the form of a man—agonized, sweat drops of blood, wept, and died on
a cruel cross for the specific purpose of bringing eternal life to human beings,
not animals.
It’s
as simple as our ABC’s. In the light of His infinite sacrifice, people come
first, then pets.
Now,
go do the right thing!
—Dr.
Laura Schlessinger
Chapter 23 –
When Lions Don’t Bite
In
the Bible, there’s a famous story about a man named Daniel who was thrown by
his enemies into a den of man-eating lions. He’s toast for sure, they thought.
Yet after a pleasant night’s sleep surrounded by furry “pillows,” Daniel
said, “My God sent His angel and shut the lions’ mouths, so that they have
not hurt me” (Daniel 6:22). The same God who had the power to make mean lions
harmless has promised that some day every lion will be as tame as your kitty
cat.
The
book of Revelation records:
And
I saw a new heaven and a new earth, for the first heaven and the first earth had
passed away . . . And God shall wipe away every tear from there eyes; there
shall be no more death, nor sorrow, nor crying. There shall be no more pain, for
the former things have passed away. Then He who sat on the throne said,
“Behold, I make all things new.” And He said to me, “Write, for these
words are true and faithful.” And He said to me, “It is done! I am the Alpha
and the Omega, the Beginning and the End. I will give of the fountain of the
water of life freely to him who thirsts.” (21:1,4–6)
A
new earth is coming. It will be a Garden of Eden restored. God says so and His
Word is true (v. 5). In that bright land all who have been redeemed through the
shed blood and spotless righteousness of Heaven’s Lamb will never die. Beyond
this, there’ll be lots of happy animals jumping around there. With
beyond-this-world vision the ancient prophet Isaiah wrote:
The
wolf also shall dwell with the lamb, The leopard shall lie down with the young
goat, The calf and the young lion and the fatling together; And a little child
shall lead them . . . They shall not hurt nor destroy in all My holy mountain,
For the earth shall be full of the knowledge of the Lord, as the waters cover
the sea. (Isaiah 11:6,9; 65:17,25)
How
utterly fantastic! Pets forever! In that happy place there’ll be no more
people funerals, pet funerals, grief recovery groups, or need for Therapy Dogs
International, Inc. to send its K–9 troops to a latter-day Ground Zero.
Heaven
is a city without a cemetery.
—Author
Unknown
What
will it be like to befriend a wolf, take a stroll with a leopard, ride piggyback
on a gentle lion, or slide down the neck of a playful giraffe? Better yet, how
would you like to be surrounded by a whole family of grizzly bears without the
slightest tinge of fear? Sounds like a dream, doesn’t it? But it’s true. God
has promised, “These words are true and faithful” (Revelation 21:5).
A
little girl from a smog-covered city went camping for the first time with her
mother in the mountains. On their first night out, as the child stood outside
their tent and looked up at the brilliant stars, she was amazed to see such
beautiful dots instead of pollution and haze. “Oh mother,” she reported
excitedly, “If heaven is so beautiful on the wrong side, what must it be like
on the right side!” How true! In this life we can only imagine the heavenly
kingdom. But someday the haze will vanish and we will find ourselves in the
midst of a perfect world with crystal clear lakes, smog-free air, gorgeous
flowers, pleasant hills, happy humans, and super-dazzling beauty.
Kristin
and I are really looking forward to being there. And of course we sincerely hope
that one of our forever friends will be a tiny rat terrier named Jax whose
fragile heart stopped beating on a dreary Halloween evening in 2001. When the
good Lord finally recreates a pollution-free planet, and when His creative voice
like thunder once again proclaims something like, “Let the earth bring forth
the living creature according to its kind” (Genesis 1:24), we would love to
see Jax reappear in a free-from-the-effects-of-sin immortal doggie body to
dance, skip, prance, cuddle, and lick us once again. How wonderful this would
be! Honestly, Kristin and I believe in the real possibility of this happening.
When
it comes to the topic of our animals becoming kingdom-pets, I will now summarize
the core concept of this book.
Our
Creator is a highly personal and intensely loving God who originally formed His
animals in the Garden of Eden to become friendly companions for human beings and
to make them happy. In the galactic laboratory of His own eternal creativity, He
not only designed human hearts to connect with each other and with Him, but He
also added the extra blessing of fashioning human hearts and animal hearts in
such a way that they would tenderly bond with each other.
As
an integral part of this happy design, the good Lord specifically gave His more
intelligent animals a certain capacity not only to think, but also to love. This
special ability—the ability to love—most definitely sets the higher animals
apart from the lesser creatures.
Even
after sin, our wonderful God continues to love both people and their pets, and
He is not unmindful of the affectionate and tender relationships established
between them. If He numbers the very hairs on our heads (Matthew 10:30), then
surely He also knows the number of furry strands on Fido!
The
Lord is also the supreme and all-powerful One to whom “nothing shall be
impossible” (Luke 1:37, kjv). In
the light of the above concepts, which I consider to reflect solid biblical
facts, it seems to me both reasonable and possible that in the new earth our
loving God just might choose to snap His fingers, so to speak, and bring back to
life certain animals that have become the special friends of His blood-bought
children to enhance their eternal happiness.
For
me personally, after Jax died, the thought that God might bring my beloved pet
back to me in eternity helped relieve my suffering heart. As this idea dawned
upon my wounded soul, I began to sense the comfort of His presence.
Nevertheless,
I must go on record as stating clearly that even if that same little pooch is
not recreated, this will not change Kristin’s or my love for God. We will
still be satisfied, at peace, and happy. God’s promise is: “And My people
shall be satisfied with My goodness, says the Lord” (Jeremiah 31:14).
Above
all—wonder of wonders!—Jesus Christ Himself will be there. With a tender
heart He’ll explain everything that has confused us on “this side of the
river.” As we look into His loving face and see the remaining nail-scars in
His hands and feet, there’ll surely be no disappointment. Along with millions
of other human beings redeemed by His heart-ripping sacrifice, we will bask in
His deep, untainted, infinite love forever. His love goes far beyond the love of
any animal! Jesus proved His love on that dreary day so long ago on a hill
outside Jerusalem when His own heart stopped beating.
Will
my pet go to heaven? I sure hope so. Yet by far the bigger question is: Will you
and I go to heaven along with our spouses, sons, daughters, parents, relatives,
and those we love? As far as our beloved pets go, the issue for them is simply
whether or not God chooses to recreate them in His new earth. But for us humans
the far larger issue is whether we choose to repent of our sins, to trust fully
in Jesus Christ and His sacrifice (symbolized by all those slaughtered lambs),
and to follow the plain teachings of the Bible. If we do, then by His grace,
we’ll be ready for His soon return and will have a home in Eden restored.
Behold,
I am coming quickly! Blessed is he who keeps the words of the prophecy of this
book. . . . And the Spirit and the bride say, “Come!” And let him who hears
say, “Come!” And let him who thirsts come. Whoever desires, let him take the
water of life freely. (Revelation 22:7; 22:17)
Then
the King will say to those on His right hand, “Come, you blessed of My Father,
inherit the kingdom prepared for you from the foundation of the world.”
(Matthew 25:34)
As
much as we love our animals, our own eternal life is more important than our
pets. In the light of eternity, which is a very long, long, long time, it’s a
no-brainer, and making sure that we ourselves enter the “Land of No
Good-byes” should be top priority. Bottom line: It’s more important than
Puppy Chow.
Kristin
and I prayed really hard that Jax would live. When his glassy eyes finally faded
into unseeing darkness, our aching hearts questioned, Oh God, why? Maybe this
book is part of His answer. If our compassionate Creator can use my words to
touch even one human life and lead that life to a better understanding of His
love and purposes, then our precious Jax did not die in vain.
By
the way, we finally did get another dog. He’s a super-cute toy rat terrier who
looks just like Jax! We named him Rerun. (42)
In
the next and final chapter of this book, I’ll share more Bible insights to
help you make sure you’ll be in God’s kingdom with your best friend, Jesus
Christ, with His redeemed people from all ages, and with His friendly animals.
Section
4: Preparing for the Afterlife
Chapter
24:
The
Key to the Kingdom
Man has no choice but to choose.
Jean Paul Sartre (1905
– 1980)
February
25, 2004, was the release date of Mel Gibson’s extremely controversial film, The
Passion of the Christ. Whether you saw the movie or not, millions did, and
it became one of the most well-attended religious films in history. What was
particularly interesting to me as I read about the heated discussions over
whether Mel’s Passion might contribute to anti-Semitism against innocent Jewish
people or not, was the fact that in the midst of the fiery debate even the
secular media was exploring this vital question: Who really was Jesus Christ anyway? A good man? More than a man? A
prophet? More than a prophet? Was He the “Son of the living God” as He
claimed, or a deluded fanatic?
Because
I am a Jewish Christian author of eight books and the host of my own radio
program, World News and the Bible, we
not only covered the subject ourselves but I was interviewed on three radio
stations immediately after The Passion
opened in theatres. The hosts were anxious to hear my perspective. During each
interview I brought up the core issue: The true identity of the Mystery Man who
was cruelly beaten, violently scourged, and finally crucified between two
thieves outside Jerusalem. Who was He? On the dark night of His trial before His
condemnation and death, Jesus of Nazareth was asked by the Jewish high priest,
“I put you under oath by the living God: Tell us if you are the Christ, the
Son of God” (Matthew 26:63). In suspenseful silence, the Sanhedrin waited for
the Rejected One’s response. “It is as you said,” replied the innocent
Sufferer, “Nevertheless, I say to you, hereafter you will see the Son of Man
sitting at the right hand of the Power, and coming on the clouds of heaven”
(Matthew 26:64).
“It
is as you said,” the Lord replied. According to the New Testament, the humble
carpenter is the indeed the Christ, the Messiah, the Son of God, the “Savior
of the world” (1 John 4:14). In His teaching which held crowds spellbound He
plainly stated, “Most assuredly, I say to you, he who believes in Me has
everlasting life” (John 6:47, emphasis added). “I am the resurrection
and the life” (John 11:25). “For God so loved the world, that He gave His
only Son, that whoever believes in Him
should perish but have everlasting life” (John 3:16, emphasis added).
According
to the Controversial One, if we want to live beyond this short life on this
earth – with its pain, sadness, and stress – we must believe in Him as our
personal Savior and surrender our hearts to His grace. The living issue is:
Jesus Christ, and what we do with Him. This
will decide our destiny.
After
Jax died, Rerun became our favorite pet. One particular day when Kristin was
gone and I was caught up with important tasks in our home office, Rerun would
not leave me alone. He kept whimpering for attention, but I couldn’t spend
time with him. I was just too busy. “Not now, boy …” “Stop crying.”
…“Rerun, not now!” After numerous frustrating “conversations” with my
adorable but now nagging dog, I finally said, “Get out! Go! Go
Now!” Each time I raised my voice, Rerun sheepishly took another reluctant
step towards the door. “Go!” I shouted for the last time, as he slowly
sulked down the hallway toward our bedroom.
After
completing my tasks and with a certain feeling of guilt, I sought him out,
hoping he still loved me. I found him where he usually sat, inside the pillows
on the master bed, on Kristin’s side. As I approached, he propped his little
head up and looked at me. “Rerun,” I said softly, “I’m sorry little
guy.” Then I saw what I was hoping for: The wag of his stubby tail, the
flattened ears, and the final sign – the tummy turn. Yep, he still loved me,
in spite of my shooing him away a few hours earlier.
As
you look back on your life, can you see times when you’ve turned someone away?
I’m not talking about you favorite pet, but your Savior and Lord, the
Crucified One, Jesus Christ, who gave His life for you. If so, you may be
wondering if He still loves you, if He
wants you, if there is real hope for you personally to live forever with Him.
Friend, there is! Yes, He loves you with His whole soul, that’s why He
willingly took the whip and the nails–yet more importantly –experienced our
sin.
Beyond
the physical pain that the real Jesus–not the actor–endured, there’s a big
lesson we can learn from Mel Gibson. Whatever your conclusions about this
millionaire’s life and character, there’s one thing Mel did which contains a
lesson for us all. Although he funded and directed The Passion, he refused to act in it, or even be seen – except in
one place. It was his fist holding the hammer which drove the nail into the
hands of the man who played the Savior. “I wanted to make a statement to the
world,” Mr. Gibson reported earnestly, “That my sin put Him there.”
How
true! Not only does Jesus deeply love you and me, but we are all guilty of His
death. Our sins put Him there – every one of us, both Jew and non-Jew. He paid
the full price, made the complete sacrifice, and was buried in Joseph’s tomb.
Then He rose from the dead. His Jerusalem tomb is empty. Someday He will return
just as He promised, to “make all things new” (Revelation 21:5). While we
wait, He alone can fill our empty, sin-scarred hearts with full forgiveness and
love, giving us assurance of eternal life.
How
can we prepare for the afterlife? What is the key to the kingdom?
The
key is believing fully in the Mystery Man and in what He said to the high priest
who inquired about His true identity – that He is indeed the Christ, the Son
of the living God, the “Savior of the world” (1 John 4:14), and forsaking
our sins.
“And
this is the testimony:
that
God has given us eternal life,
and
this life is in His Son. He who has the Son has life:
and
he who does not have the Son of God does not have life.”
1
John 5:11, 12
“For
the wages of sin is death,
but
the gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord.”
“If
we confess our sins, He is faithful and just
to
forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.”
1
John 1:9
“Even
to your old age, I am He,
And
even to your gray hairs I will carry you!
I
have made, and will bear;
Even
I will carry, and will deliver you.”
Isaiah
46:4 (emphasis added)
I
hope to see you on the other side.
Believe
me, the retirement benefits Jesus offers us are out of this world.
1.
Newsweek: Special Report—After the Terror. September 24, 2001. Article
entitled, The End of the End of History, by Fareed Zakaria.
2. Taken
from the article, Volunteers, The Spirit of America, on TDI’s web site
(see www.tdi-dog.org/disaster.htm).
Paragraph by Nanette Winter, M.A. Director of Psychological
Services, Northstar Industries, Saranac Lake, NY;
TDI Evaluator
3.
Also taken from the article, Volunteers,
The Spirit of America, on TDI’s web site (see www.tdi-dog.org/disaster.htm).
4.
Taken from
www.heinzdoghero.com—a Heinz Pet Products web site featuring their Hero
Dogs of the Year Awards: A Tribute to 47 Years of Amazing Canines. For story
details, click on Timeline Of Heroes.
5. Reported in an article by Lee
Dye on ABCNEWS.com, October 2002. See
http://abcnews.go.com/sections/scitech/DyeHard/dyehard021010.html
6.
For further information on Michigan State University’s “Human-Animal
Bond Initiative,” see http://nursing.msu.edu/habi/index.html
7.
Listed under Delta Society Goals, taken from their web site, http://www.deltasociety.org/dsf000.htm#mission
8. Lee Dye’s article on ABCNEWS.com, October 2002.
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Y, Yokoyama T, Yura A, Iki M, Shimizu T. Ecological association of water
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35.
This story was taken from John G. Sutton, author of the book, Psychic Pets:
Supernatural True Stories of Paranormal Animals. Beyond Words Publishing, Inc.
(1998).
36.
See www.pyschicworld.net/ppp.htm.
37.
See www.pyschicnet.net/Psychic%20Pets.htm.
38.
Ghost Dogs of the South, by Randy Russell and Janet Barnett. John F. Blair,
Publisher (2001).
39.
Taken from www.blairpub.com/folklore/ghostdogssouth.htm, the official web site
of John F. Blair, Publisher.
40.
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Penguin Putnam Inc. 2001.
41.
See www.spirithealer.com.
42.
On pp. [?] and [?] of this book, all of the puppy pictures are of
Rerun, as is the picture of the full-grown dog by the vent wagging his tail. All
of the other photos are of Jax. Steve, Kristin, and Rerun are pictured on the
back cover of this book.
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